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commentr/StutterAug 7, 2022
7 points

I can relate. My mom when she gets frustrated at something she says non sense like these to me frequently. *Are you faking your stutter to punish me?* *Just spit it out* like these. I didnt take th...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterAug 6, 2022
27 points

This shit sucks

This shit sucks I’ve not been let into a night club because of my stutter. They told me to wait in line for another half hour which I did and they thought I was too drunk because I stuttered a little ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2022
2 points

Yup, I have so much internalized hate as a stutterer I tend to project it onto others, even if their speech impediment isn't a stutter or a stammer but a lisp or inability to pronounce certain words. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2022
6 points

Honestly, every time I hear someone having a major stutter it feels like I’m punched in the gut. It just brings back all these awful memories of how back my stutter used to be when I was a kid and how...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2022
41 points

i cringe so badly. i just realize this is how i sound like too and i don't want to accept that....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2022
2 points

Im 16 and a person who stutters, I was never to concerned about it when I was in elementary school. Until one day I had a really bad stutter in front of 80 kids at my school and got made fun of for a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2022
1 points

When the teacher asks you ”Who are you?” then “What is your name.” ignores and shouts at another student who tried to help, waits and stares as I struggled....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
postr/StutterAug 4, 2022
1 points

Can I get some donations, I'm stutterer, I think I stutter because of my low confidence and reason for that is I'm poor, money is only thing which can bring my confidence back

Can I get some donations, I'm stutterer, I think I stutter because of my low confidence and reason for that is I'm poor, money is only thing which can bring my confidence back [removed]...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2022
2 points

Yeah "I'm simply tired" sums it up. I no longer care if I sound like a fool or what people think. I'm just tired and don't want to talk. Non stuttering people can never understand how f* exhausting th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2022
4 points

I always joke about how much easier it would be if I cut my tongue off. Funny thing is, it actually would...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterAug 1, 2022
53 points

Humiliation

Humiliation I’m 61 yo. I stutter since 3. I’ve been ridiculed, shamed, double shamed: I felt the shame of both myself and my parents, humiliated, laughed at, sneered at, passed over at job solicitatio...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2022
-10 points

That's cool I stutter too btw....I'm just saying i don't feel like a girl deserves it....I'm just soft hearted towards women...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2022
-10 points

Anytime i see a girl stutters I feel pity for her immediately Not like guy's tho...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2022
5 points

For me people seem to either find it funny or creepy, there's no middle ground. Always nice when people give you a wide berth because they think you're creepy because your face contorts for a few seco...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2022
3 points

I think most of us wouldn't mind the stutter if other people simply didn't react to it they way they do. I remember during a call I stuttered very bad on a town and I heard the operator laugh as the ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2022
9 points

When I block, my whole body becomes tense. I tend to kind of bow my head involuntarily. People break eye contact with me. I even twitch my arms or hands when I block for too long. Sometimes, the words...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2022
1 points

I hate whenever I'm at a restaurant and the waiter or waitress gives me my food and I am unable to say "thank you". That really makes me mad. My stutter makes me seem like a jerk even though I don't t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
1 points

I’m both in speech therapy as of now and go to a few local support groups that meets monthly virtually. Speech therapy and the support group allowed me to be vulnerable and my authentic self while not...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
2 points

Sorry that yesterday sucked. I've had days like that. Days that I just want to forget because I could hardly speech and I ruined chances to get to know people. Even tho the changes are gradual, ...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 26, 2022
26 points

I need tips on how to deal with it.

I need tips on how to deal with it. I am 18, and have stuttered my whole life. I have never escaped the little comments, but since being at college I feel like it causes me to have severe social anxi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+3 more