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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

My partner disclosed in writing when we were online dating. It took about 2 months of them avoiding speaking to me, certain that the relationship would be over. It's a cute story from my perspective...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

My husband has a stutter we have been together many years and have children and grandchildren. Over the years his stutter hasn't really been talked about much but we do have 2 things we do .Having to ...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
3 points

And to also add on to your comment, communication is very important in a relationship and when a severe stutterer like myself in this example cannot reiterate affection like a normal fluent person the...

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Dating & RomanceQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
3 points

I would also like to add that a lot of these posts seem to be only directed for straight men, as if some men on here just forgot that woman also stutter. I see so many posts on here being “to the men,...

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Dating & RomanceFamily Support & ConflictIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
6 points

The fact is you assume people haven't went to therapy with no evidence. Look at the stats on severe and stuttering and success of speech therapy. Many people try so hard and still cant fix their stu...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationStigma & BullyingEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

I think we need to be careful about presenting "70% of stutterers are suicidal" as fact. This originates from a study of 140 people on suicidial ideation and is very unlikely to be representative. W...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
13 points

I completely disagree. Having suicidal thoughts is not shameful and it is something that should be talked about more. 70% of all stutterers have suicidal ideation. Just imagine the percent in severe o...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceSuicidal Ideation & High DistressStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
3 points

same situation like yours... i am 32 and never been into relationships, just crushes yeah, but not more than that... still hoping for a soulmate...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
5 points

I'm 22 and I've never been in a relationship myself. While I think I'm pretty pathetic myself for it, it's mostly because I never tried really conversing with people afraid of what they'd say. At one...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceEmployment & CareerHiding & Concealment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 20, 2025
5 points

I clutter - I also feel like I'm never going to find love

I clutter - I also feel like I'm never going to find love Hello my cousins! I couldn't find the cluttering community. And that's because there aren't a lot of us. Stuttering is more common. But clutte...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Repetitions & ProlongationsAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
4 points

My wife married me because she thought my stutter was cute. It's been 26 years. Roll with it. Always lead with Truth...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
4 points

When I was in my 20s my date thought my stutter was cute. This year, we've been married for 17 years....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
2 points

TRUST ME, they know & been heard it. They’ll be as comfortable with it as you are. Causally bring it up & see what happens.They obviously like you enough to not have ghosted you by now after hearing i...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
10 points

What I did was ask her (once we were comfortable enough to share these things with each other) was what was/is the hardest thing you have dealt with or deal with currently. After I listened to her and...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & RomanceSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
7 points

My bad. In my defense the overwhelming majority of posts here are from males. But it doesn’t change anything. Any man worth a damn won’t care either. ;)...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
1 points

I’ve so many goals and I’m not letting this issue stop me. Will keep trying for a solution. It’s costed me so many opportunities, relationships, and what not! Are you from India btw?...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of LifeEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
1 points

I stutter and met my wife in college. She loves me and thinks im the funniest person ever lol...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
1 points

I’m also gay. I don’t stutter but I find men who do very attractive, especially when a guy rolls through it and keeps going. It shows me two things: 1. He doesn’t let challenges keep him from accompl...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
1 points

Her best friends (female) and my best friends (male) are good friends. my friend asked if he should introduce me to her or maybe let her know that I like her, but I refused. I know she deserves someon...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
3 points

Does she know you or have you just admired her from afar? Even perfectly fluent people don't start dating without knowing each other outside of movies....

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Dating & Romance