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commentr/StutterNov 6, 2024
1 points

thank you for this :D , this is the motivation i need, but the best now i can do is to avoid those people who mock me. i don't want to break my mental peace...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
1 points

I had an experience like that, the women said "oh, did you forget your name?" It's hard, but 1.) You can't force your self to say a word, you can only hide or go through the block (stutter) and i pr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
1 points

I was married for 10 years. My wife never knew until one day ordering food on the phone and I had an episode. Aside from that one slip up, she would not have known. I hide it well, but it's stressf...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
2 points

LOL!!! SO true. Also if I am ordering from an indian/ foreign place I just start prolonging the syllables of the dishes name and acting as if I am having a hard time finding the correct way to pronoun...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
3 points

i hate all those words starting with C or K, I wish humanity could erase those alphabets lol like I always stuck while saying words like CRicket or CRedit, so what do I is take a pause (I try to brid...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
2 points

Eh, I’ve been dealing with it all of my life. I just push through it and move on to the next thing. I try to not to let it get to me anymore. I also work on my fluency and that’s a lot better now, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2024
1 points

Same boat as you. I avoid saying a lot of words due to the stutter but I fear it makes people think I’m stupid. I had some co workers tell me there’s a difference between how I talk on email vs in per...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2024
1 points

There's a post from me in this sub from a while back that outlines that. In the end though it's habit, I'm mid 50s, I kicked the stutter very late in my 20s. Tough time before then....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2024
1 points

Something that I have found to help is to focus on pronouncing the second letter in my name more than the first letter. Starts with a D which is a hard letter for me, so I instead focus on the second ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterNov 4, 2024
9 points

Stuttering as a tour guide

Stuttering as a tour guide Howdy frens In a few weeks I start a job as a tour guide and, although my stuttering is way less than it was years ago, I still struggle occasionally, especially with the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterNov 3, 2024
15 points

i got cooked

i got cooked i got absolutely cooked man, stood up for a speech on first day cause i felt like i was getting forced to speak on mun ( wasnt aware how muns work) and i stuttered after every 2 words tha...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
10 points

I'm always way more baffled by my stuttering ass having to make a speech when my homies will get marrief...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
11 points

Your stutter is automated and habitual, body's default way of doing speech. To change this you have to recondition your mind to use a different pattern, almost like force yourself to write with the ot...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2024
2 points

Hey, I agree with you that generally stutter is not something to be embarrassed about. But, I think what you said is up for the stutterer to decide. Personally, growing up I felt embarrassed about my ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
3 points

I got used to ppl finishing my sentence's, lol i used to hate it but it its less frustrating than having to struggle to get it out, my wife/ex was very good at making me feel comfortable wherever we w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of LifeAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterNov 2, 2024
10 points

how do y’all prefer people react when you stutter? & why?

how do y’all prefer people react when you stutter? & why? i also have a stutter, so i’m just curious to see if other people have similar or different preferences. personally, i most prefer that peopl...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Listener ReactionsAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
2 points

Its the overthinking at the time of introduction. Dont think much, practice smiling in front of a mirror and confidently inreoducing yourself if you have to....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
1 points

Your prolongation didn’t go away, so much as it morphed into the block, also called a covert stutter. If you learn to be comfortable with others hearing your prolongations again, thr blocks will vani...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
1 points

Stutter blocks around your own name are quite difficult but not impossible. In my experience a lot of what it boils down to is just getting used to introducing yourself in front of people, and realisi...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
1 points

Take every interview you can get. Facing this can help. Interviewing for jobs you don't care about can be a nice stepping stone. I always see people who track the hundreds of resumes they send out, ...

School & WorkCommunity & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAdvice RequestsAvoidance & Substitution