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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
2 points

This piece by Harrison fundamentally changed how I thought about my blocking when I first read it some years ago now, but I always have trouble finding it when I think of it for some reason. Thanks fo...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
1 points

Great article my dude.. Basically, stuttering is both neurological and psychological.. We have a predisposition to stuttering if a trauma arises..It's more like a habit, constant rumination and intrus...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainTrauma & PsychologicalCycles & Randomness+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
1 points

Hello! People who stutter are more observant, for example what stuttering taught me is that everything is fighting a battle we know nothing about! Because we may seem like happy outside and a lot of m...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
4 points

This happened to me when I was 15. I stuttered and all of a sudden I had this deep fear of it and did everything possible to hide it. There are a lot of theories about the causes of stuttering so we ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
4 points

A huge part in any stutterers life is the "fakeness". Almost nobody knows a stutterers true personality. Generally shy,avoidant and fake smiling(or even fake rude) a lot because we are begging nobody ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
2 points

My patterns have changed loads over the years. I used to block on certain sounds, then on any sounds. It would be worse when stressed or anxious or in certain situations like using the phone or with f...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2020
1 points

You would probably just use pseudostuttering (fake stuttering like a non-stuttering actor would do) and use your past knowledge of how stuttering sounds and feels to portray it better than a non-stutt...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Roles & PerformanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2020
3 points

I think the key is to figure out how to just be yourself as a stutterer. For me this meant coming to terms with stuttering being a part of me, and getting more comfortable with stuttering in front of ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2020
6 points

As tough as it sounds, just owning the stutter and doing your best to be yourself is key here. My stutter was awful the year I was graduating high school. I’m a senior in college now and it’s still pr...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2020
3 points

100%. There's science behind this too. Human beings by default naturally want congruence. That means they want you to stay the same, in the box they have figuratively put you in. That box shapes y...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2020
1 points

it used to be a blessing! i remember the first time trying it yearsssss ago. I felt like a new person, stripped back from all the nerves etc. I went around my friends in mcdonalds asking if they wante...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2020
1 points

I think the general verdict is that stuttering isn't a lack of speech skill. It's just rather that when we carry out our speech, stutter gets in the way - and not because we're bad at it. We do know h...

Identity & Disability
Medicalization / NeurodiversityAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2020
1 points

Absolutely nothing. Me and my parents literally denied it. I would try to get round my stuttering by building a large vocab of substitute words. Sometimes I would close my eyes in the middle of a co...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2020
1 points

This is a great mindset to be in. Glad you are here. But in my experience, trying to "forget about your stutter" will cause you more pain and stuttering. As this means you are putting energy into st...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2020
1 points

I’m not single, I have a wonderful family. Once I discovered how to just be myself, and how to kind of let other people in, I was never single again for very long. After this I had to learn how to tre...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2020
2 points

The most useful thing for me was just practicing talking in a very calm, softer voice than how I actually speak. I talk in that way whenever someone new speaks to me, otherwise I drop it and talk like...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2020
1 points

Yes exactly. I also think it's very intertwined with our self esteem. That's why I became a perfectionist when I was younger. I thought that if I accomplished a lot I would become more confident and t...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2020
1 points

Hey mate,I can completely relate to your struggles.Are you fluent in some scenarios like recording yourself alone or speaking to someone in particular?I think that it is imperative for you to experime...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2020
1 points

Bro I feel like you gotta take the hard painful road, not the easy road. Stutter more and be yourself! Stop dumbing yourself down to conform. Just fucking stutter and be your wonderful unique self. Wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2020
1 points

I feel like you’re already passed the scary part. You’ve been seeing him and spending time with him. The fact that your stutter isn’t prevalent around him probably just means you’re pretty comfortable...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking