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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2018
2 points

Of course. This philosophy doesn't necessarily have to be about that. It can be applied to finding a partner for a commited relationship as well....

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2018
4 points

I'm right there with you. Mine has progressively gotten worst the past few months and it has just snowballed. I went on a date and it was just so uncomfortable for me. I couldn't wait to get home. ...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2018
3 points

I met her online and we texted a lot. We then later started skyping and while I tried to hide my stutter by avoiding bad words she of course noticed it anyways but genuinely didn't care. On the contr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2018
4 points

I've learned anxiety is just my brain telling me fake news (I saw this in a meme) but it's still so hard to not psyche myself out. Once I'm done meeting up with a girl, it's never as bad as I thought ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterMay 18, 2018
9 points

A bit of hope <3

A bit of hope <3 Ok, so I hear and read a lot of times about us stutter feeling too shy to talk to girls etc. My experience has far different and here is why. I used to think the same that my Sutte...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2018
3 points

Yep, sucks to stutter. You gotta keep swingin' bro and continue putting yourself out there. The more you try the more chances you'll have of connecting with someone. I'm not saying hit on everything i...

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Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
postr/StutterMay 17, 2018
6 points

It happened again :( Met a nice girl out on the streets but stutter stopped me from being able to approach her .. :(

It happened again :( Met a nice girl out on the streets but stutter stopped me from being able to approach her .. :( Previous thread.. https://www.reddit.com/r/depression/comments/8jv040/saw_a_girl_i_...

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Suicidal Ideation & High DistressAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2018
1 points

The more you talk to her the easier it’ll get. At first you might be an absolute mess but you’ll get more and more relaxed with each conversation. A Stammer is such a pain when it comes to girls...

Social & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Dating & RomanceCycles & Randomness
postr/StutterMay 16, 2018
18 points

Met a really nice girl who said numerous times that she doesn't care about my stutter but I'm still scared to talk to her because of the stutter, what do I do? :(

Met a really nice girl who said numerous times that she doesn't care about my stutter but I'm still scared to talk to her because of the stutter, what do I do? :( ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2018
3 points

My college has a secret admirer Facebook page, where you can say "I say this boy/girl at this time at this place and then some kinky line" like 75% of the time, it's given the person trying to meet a ...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2018
8 points

Quite a few girls love the confidence of a guy who is willing to come up and talk to them. Add on to that that you are at a disadvantage with your stutter, and she'll appreciate it more than you can i...

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Dating & RomanceHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2018
2 points

I understand where you're coming from. I'm kinda the same way, especially around meeting new people. I don't know how serious your stutter is, mine has its bad days and good days. I was lucky that my ...

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commentr/StutterMay 9, 2018
2 points

I used to sleep around but eventually I knew this wasn't going to help my desire for a meaningful relationship and it honestly gets old. I got on a medication many weeks ago (a SNRI) and I've been tex...

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postr/StutterApr 23, 2018
43 points

I stuttered when talking to a girl...

I stuttered when talking to a girl... So the other night I was at a nightclub and it took me a while (and some alcohol) but eventually I mustered enough courage to make a move on a girl on the dancefl...

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commentr/StutterApr 18, 2018
3 points

Bro, fuck it and do it. I grew up in the age where we weren't using tinder or even texting. I had to approach girls at the mall on Fridays. I just had my quick little speech in my head, practiced a mi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & RomanceHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2018
4 points

I'm a huge flirt, so I guess my tip is forget about your stutter and be confident (like they're easy right /s ) Breathing helps a lot too. Everybody has their different strategies, but I never let my ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2018
3 points

We live in such an easier time than previous generations when it comes to dating because there's online dating, Tinder. I've actually met my girlfriend of 2 years on there. She finds it insanely attra...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideMindfulness & Breathing+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2018
1 points

What are some tips you can give me because I’m a cute guy but I just can’t talk to girls and it sucks...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2018
2 points

I was nervous about stuttering in front of girls. I found out that I stutter less in front of them. I have to be in a relationship for a few months, before it becomes really noticeable. They never se...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2018
3 points

I don't mean to toot my horn but I get plenty of girls, despite my stutter. I think if they sense it doesn't bother you, it doesn't bother them. I never settle for girls based on which accept my stutt...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more