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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2023
2 points

Thank you, truly. I am good. I am not thinking about ending it, and I am not depressed. I just went through some thoughts and in the moment just let myself cry. It helped suppress them. I am grateful ...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2023
2 points

You are not alone https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/44ao3w/stutter_worst_when_ive_been_planning_what_i_want/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/1w48r7/how_do_fluent_people_think_befo...

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
2 points

I’m so glad my words resonated with you, but terribly sorry to hear you’re in the same boat as me....

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Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
2 points

that's the worst way for a teacher to handle someone's speech block....

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Validation & EmpathySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2023
2 points

Very well said. My husband stutters, and he’s probably the best listener (and least narcissistic person) that I know. As someone who doesn’t stutter, I can attest that fluent people can also very eas...

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Validation & EmpathyStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
2 points

What a wonderful person she was to be so understanding. You shouldn’t feel shame at all since she processed it well. I know it’s emotionally triggering but you got a positive response when it happened...

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Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
3 points

Ah, that makes sense. Some of the teachers i had in middle school and high school left a lot to be desired… it sounds like your teacher is dumb. I would try not to internalize it (i know it’s difficul...

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postr/StutterJan 24, 2023
63 points

Can we talk about how emotionally triggering speech blocks can be?

Can we talk about how emotionally triggering speech blocks can be? Just had a wonderful conversation with someone i haven’t seen in awhile. After effortless speech, the moment finally came…. She asked...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
postr/StutterJan 24, 2023
8 points

Podcast hangout episode is out

Podcast hangout episode is out Hello,I want to say thank you to all who loved the idea of the podcast hangout,so I hosted my first guest from this space and I learnt alot from him,he talked about his ...

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
1 points

Lmao, this sub is so supportive and positivity-centered. I honestly have a hard time believing that someone with the experiences of a stutterer would be callous enough to express *any* support for s...

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Validation & EmpathyHumor & Community Tone
postr/StutterJan 22, 2023
12 points

Just saying

Just saying If you ever thought being neutral and patient in reaction isn’t the bare minimum non-stutterers should be doing, I just stuttered in front of a 15 year old cashier and they had 0 reaction,...

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Validation & EmpathyListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
4 points

Hi Distinct-Heat6488, Big question, and here's what helped me: I went out on a few dozen first dates... most never made it to a second date, but the important part for me was to gain experience as qu...

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Dating & RomanceVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
8 points

I barely noticed my husbands stutter when we were first dating. He was so funny and charming it was just kind of part of his charm. We’ve been together for 15 years now :) As others have said, people...

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
4 points

People that are worth keeping around won't care 😊 Everyone has problems! 24 is a pretty rough time for dating though - a lot of people that age haven't matured enough to be empathetic. Things will g...

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Dating & RomanceValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
17 points

im a lurker and I never post or comment. this sub isn’t really toxic at all. it’s just ppl coming together for advice or to vent or help each other out imo. it’s good to hear we aren’t the only ones g...

Community & Support
Validation & EmpathyHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2023
1 points

I’d try to find another way to let her know you enjoy talking to her. My husband stutters, and when we first were talking I’d tell him not to apologize. But I don’t think that was very helpful, and I ...

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Validation & EmpathyDating & Romance
postr/StutterJan 20, 2023
7 points

Should I tell someone who stutters not to apologise?

Should I tell someone who stutters not to apologise? Okay, so I have this online friend. I don't know whether she has an officially diagnosed stutter, but whenever she's particularly emotional (or tir...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2023
5 points

Thanks man, I once again really appreciate the efforts you put into your comments (not that the rest don’t lol)....

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2023
9 points

I remember how that was. replaying events and conversations where I wanted to say something but didn't, or stuttered so bad I didn't enjoy it. it's tough. I actually did a speech course that helped a...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2023
11 points

Good luck my guy, hope u bust them cheeks right after 🤣 naw tho but just be yo self and enjoy the moment...

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Validation & Empathy