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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
1 points

Yup, Tinder is the only way I ever get dates haha, approaching in real life is too uncomfortable. Couple of questions for you. 1) Did you hide it on dates? If not, did you disclose before you met th...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
1 points

Ouch, that sound a painful. When she said you have a lot to work on, do you think she was talking about your stuttering or was it something else?...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
1 points

You genuinely believe it's just as hard to passively wait for guys to approach you as it is to have to come up with an ice breaker and then initiate the conversation? Even after the ice breaker, mos...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2018
1 points

Same boat as you dude. Long blocks. I met my wife on Tinder two years ago. Took her out for drinks which helped a bit with anxiety. Try Tinder!...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
8 points

Absolutely no comparison. Men always have it far harder when it comes to dating. Men are expected to initiate which is very difficult to do so with a stutter....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
3 points

Yes. The anticipation when she sees a guy walking toward her....hoping he is not so she won’t have to talk. Both sides are nerve wracking as hell. ...

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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
2 points

So she would go through the same things any guy would, except she wouldn't have to approach, which is arguably the most difficult and nerve wracking part? ...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
3 points

1.) I'm not capable of hiding it. I don't disclose it before hand but I'm considering doing it in the future. I usually stutter a bit and then mention that I have a speech disorder. They say something...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
2 points

My dude, you are misguided. This attitude about dating or relationships while stuttering not being as demanding on a woman has been heavily discussed at many National Stuttering Association workshops...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
2 points

Huh? Obviously women and men have different dating standards, that wasn't mean to be demeaning at all, just a fact... Men are usually expected to initiate, and confidence is an extremely important tr...

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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
7 points

I have a moderate to severe stutter. I have never had a problem dating or with women. I have always dated/met my serious relationships through friends and during group activities. First serious h...

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Hiding & ConcealmentDating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
1 points

Hi there, I really don't know how severe your stutter is but I will assume it is something similar to mine: There is no simple way of dealing with socializing and relationships when you stutter. In my...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
1 points

Just wear it with pride, man. It makes you unique and gives you a story most others don’t have at your age. When you meet a girl, don’t hide it! Let it be the first thing you say about yourself, ...

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Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
3 points

Couple of questions for you. 1) Do you hide it on dates? If not, do you disclose before you meet them irl? 2) How do they react? Do they immediately become extremely uncomfortable and try to leave o...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
4 points

I'm in the same boat as you. I'm 21 and have a pretty severe stutter. I've been able to get some dates from online apps but the dates never go well. Never had a second date and am a virgin. It feels ...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
4 points

I'm a woman and my stutter is moderate. I never had a problem getting dates but I did struggle to find a good long term relationship. My #1 advice to anyone is to stop trying so hard. Love will find y...

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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
2 points

I was 24 when I met my GF. We met in college. She was a friend of my roommate at the time. ...

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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2018
8 points

I was in the same boat as you and had the same feelings. And then I met someone. It might take longer than you expect but it will happen. People really aren't bothered by your Stutter nearly as much...

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Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2018
1 points

Yup, I imagine if I could speak fluently all the great things I can do, I'd probably have a better job, social life, relationships, friendships. People who can speak fluently have no idea how great th...

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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2018
1 points

Have you tried communicating your fears to your partner to see if they have any bases in reality or its just an unfounded fear? Maybe it would be helpful for you to hear their answer about if they thi...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDating & Romance