Yup, Tinder is the only way I ever get dates haha, approaching in real life is too uncomfortable. Couple of questions for you. 1) Did you hide it on dates? If not, did you disclose before you met them irl? 2) How did they react? Did they mostly immediately become extremely uncomfortable and try to leave or did they usually give you a chance? 3) What does your wife think about it, if you've ever discussed it?