You genuinely believe it's just as hard to passively wait for guys to approach you as it is to have to come up with an ice breaker and then initiate the conversation? Even after the ice breaker, most of the responsibility lies on the guy to impress the girl, not the other way around. Have you never been to a club or a party? You'll see a line of guys nervously approach a girl, the girl listens to what they gave to say and then decides whether she likes them or not. I'm sure it's stressful for girls, but nowhere near as much for guys lol. It's a *lot* tougher to approach and initiate than it is to just wait for the guy to approach you.