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postr/StutterJun 1, 2022
22 points

Realization

Realization I’m 18 and just got a job where communication is the number one factor. And I realized how bad my stutter effects me. Whenever I’m talking with customers, I just pause for no reason to sto...

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postr/StutterJun 1, 2022
0 points

Have I developed a stutter?

Have I developed a stutter? In my mid teens, teachers and other figures of authority always said saying umm or uhh, was a bad habit, and through university, I have tried to get rid of this habit durin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2022
12 points

Overreacting for sure. We all overreact to our stutter and it’s important to constantly remind ourselves of that. It’s not nearly as big of a deal as we mentally make it out to be....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
postr/StutterMay 30, 2022
16 points

do you disclose that you stutter when you first meet people?

do you disclose that you stutter when you first meet people? hello all, i’ve recently been reflecting disclosing my stutter whenever i meet new people or am in new situations/environments. it is more ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2022
1 points

Yes so true! I think like another commenter said it’s their way of showing their not “affected” by your stuttering and aren’t going to closely observe you while you do it. I notice I don’t make eye co...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringPhysical Tension
postr/StutterMay 29, 2022
15 points

Advice

Advice Hello everyone i hope you are all great! I just wanted to speak about something i’m pretty confused on. Does anyone else experience a parent or anyone close to you seeming a little agitated whe...

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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2022
1 points

It's extremely common, a "secondary behavior". Eye contact is a lot of processing. Your brain would rather use that processing for something else, like thinking of words to say or concentrating on rat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2022
2 points

Many people with stuttering avoid eye contact and may speak "down and to the side". You may just be pointing your head in the wrong direction, which can impact how well your voice projects. Also, just...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringPhysical Tension
postr/StutterMay 29, 2022
21 points

people can't hear me and i'm always asked to repeat.

people can't hear me and i'm always asked to repeat. I hate my stutter, today when I was in class the teacher asked me to answer the question, so of course I said yes and proceeded to answer. When I a...

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postr/StutterMay 27, 2022
54 points

Rough Interview

Rough Interview I had a rough day today and wanted to vent on here. I applied for a role I am overqualified for and even studied the role and company inside out before going in. I explained at the beg...

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commentr/StutterMay 26, 2022
2 points

I’ve always had the same question, even when recording myself speak I don’t stutter that much and if not it’s controllable....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringSituational Variability
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2022
5 points

Its common among most stutterers (like myself). I once stuttered when i thought someone was behind me as i was showing them something, i turned back and there was no one there. Its excessive self moni...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2022
1 points

Thank you that is very interesting, and also when I do get into a conversation or approaching one I’m in this conversation self conscious mode already. Also ill be sure to give stutter talk a look an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 26, 2022
2 points

anyone have tips

anyone have tips I don't stutter much,when I am talking to my friends,people I know or even random people I don't stutter but when I have to do a presentation or talk infront of a grouo of peopleI stu...

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postr/StutterMay 26, 2022
27 points

I stutter when I'm around people but don't at all when im alone... i'm confused

I stutter when I'm around people but don't at all when im alone... i'm confused Ive had a stutter since I could talk and its been really had to do deal with in a social setting. However I have also be...

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commentr/StutterMay 25, 2022
3 points

I think (in my opinion) it’s just as much psychological as it is physical. I think that we psyche ourselves out KNOWING we can and most likely will get a block or stutter on something, and then we thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2022
11 points

Also on my watchlist is NEURALINK by / with Elon Musk and Emalex Bioscience Ecopipam by Dr. Gerald Maguire. I do not see any other cure at the moment....

Community & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Research & ResourcesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2022
2 points

Maybe it's just my own way to keep my brain busy while speaking and not focusing too much on stuttering...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
3 points

Wow, very interesting thesis. Best of luck with it Have you read any Van Riper by any chance? Or the older authors in the field. Van Riper talks about the more a person tries not to stammer, invaria...

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commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
5 points

Take this with a grain of salr because its been my experience, diaphragmatic breathing helps as much as it relaxes you but its not a magic bullet. Your stuttering might be like mine, excessive self mo...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Mindfulness & BreathingOverthinking & MonitoringTrauma & Psychological