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postr/StutterApr 23, 2019
7 points

Calling a government agency

Calling a government agency I had an awkward stuttering moment: Called child support today (I work in HR). Got a robot answering. Tried to say what option I wanted, struggled, so robot said: Please s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerListener Reactions
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2019
14 points

You need to talk to someone who you feel completely safe with. Your parents, a therapist, your best-friend, or even just venting to this subreddit since we all know what you're going through. I know...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2019
7 points

1. Take a moment in the moment. You're obviously more nervous than you consciously know, and it's reflecting in your speech. Stop speaking. Reset your patterns. 2. Observe the offending party. Th...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2019
2 points

And I would dare say in my situation it’s not confidence. It’s assholishness. ‘I’m tired of people not knowing what I’m thinking and feeling and then thinking I don’t know anything. I’m never going to...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2019
1 points

Posting here because a lot of people who have ADHD also have an increased chance for stuttering. This may be why we feel like every time we get rejected from pretty much anything, potential partners, ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
postr/StutterApr 18, 2019
28 points

I'm the most unlucky person on earth

I'm the most unlucky person on earth Only 1% of the world has a stammer when god loaded the world 99% of people loaded correctly but I had to be on this 1% well if I'm not the unluckiest then what is ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterApr 16, 2019
17 points

cursed in front of my teacher

cursed in front of my teacher i was trying to tell my teacher something when i couldn’t say the word “i”. it’s one of my most tripped over words and i just couldn’t get it out. then some kid nearby ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterApr 13, 2019
9 points

Stutter due to the loss of someone important?

Stutter due to the loss of someone important? Hello everyone, I have a weird case of the stutter and I wanted to hear your thoughts of it. I was just an average boy, never had a problem with stutteri...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
postr/StutterApr 13, 2019
12 points

Stammering/Stuttering has ruined my life

Stammering/Stuttering has ruined my life This is more of a rant than anything but it sucks. I’m 24 nearly 25 only ever had minimum wage low paid jobs and just feel like my stutter’s held me back mass...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2019
0 points

Can you imagine if it was a legitimate mistake, like the key stuck or something and he didn't notice. You could never explain that without sounding like you were lying. That would suck. Luckily the g...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2019
2 points

I could have raged out of this at one point in my life. I'm not sure I wouldn't *not* be able to say something....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2019
32 points

Is this for real? What the actual fuck? Why would someone do that? That's super annoying when someone does something like that, and it sure as hell serves him right. Sorry for getting so angry about t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2019
3 points

Dont plan your life around your stutter. You will absolutely regret it later. I know it sucks. I know less speaking is an easy solution. But why be a mime when opera singer is your dream? Do what you ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2019
1 points

You gotta take the victories where you can and don't sweat the small stuff! I constantly find myself in a place where my stutter just bums the hell out of me....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2019
1 points

Thanks everyone! It’s just been an insanely difficult week for me and this particular manager I don’t like so it was really frustrating when he mocked me. Normally though I do laugh at it too....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2019
2 points

Yes and no. I don’t try to hide my stuttering anymore and I’m not as embarrassed, but I feel like I stutter more than I used to. I feel more frustrated rather than embarrassed....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2019
3 points

Really sorry that happened to you. It doesn't feel nice I know but try to not dwell on it. I'm sure if you tell them that you have a stutter and how that made you feel they won't do it again and will ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2019
2 points

Stuttering has made me incredibly cynical. I guess it's good that this stupidity was at least beneficial to someone, even though there are many people who have attained those attributes without stutte...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2019
0 points

I wrote 1 sentence phrased as a question. You are filling in your own persona of an attitude I never gave off....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2019
2 points

You coming here with these questions is really sweet. Understand that some people who stutter but seem to remain cool and calm may still have strong feelings about something. I 'learned' early how to...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Frustration & AngerValidation & Empathy