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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2019
14 points

Dating is the one thing I haven’t figured out as a stutterer. I’m not sure if it’s me or my stutter but I’ve never really had the confidence to flirt. ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 30, 2019
21 points

DAE feel like their stutter is holding them back from forming social relationships?

DAE feel like their stutter is holding them back from forming social relationships? My girlfriend is kinda upset that I don't talk to her family as much as I maybe could, I'm not sure if it's down to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2019
2 points

Tell your boyfriend! Relationships are built on honesty and trust. If he cares at all about you he will understand and love you even more. Hiding forever isn't good....

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2019
4 points

Honestly, almost everyone I’ve dated has told me my stutter was cute, attractive, etc. Remember: your worst enemy is you. Most people don’t care about your stutter, and if they do, then they can go fu...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2019
4 points

Our first date was a blind date and it was very apparent when I stumbled on my name. It was love at first sight and we've never looked back. When I have a block, she just looks into my eyes and wait...

Social & RelationshipsSpeech & StutteringCommunity & Support
Dating & RomanceBlocks & StoppagesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2019
5 points

Awesome man, I wish I can do that one day. When did you tell her that you stutter? Or was just natural?...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2019
5 points

CONGRATULATIONS 👍🙌🙏 Don't make it a big deal, she will like you for you and that's the truth. I'll be celebrating my 24th Anniversary next month and it's been an amazing journey. ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2019
5 points

Good for you. I think you’ll find your stutter doesn’t really factor into love interests. Socially, other people in general just don’t care....

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Dating & RomanceValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterJan 5, 2019
61 points

I just had a date after 2 year of shame of my stutter

I just had a date after 2 year of shame of my stutter I was always afraid of going a date because of my stutter. My friend and I decided to download tinder to challenge ourselves. I don't know how t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentPreparation & RehearsalMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2019
2 points

I would not make a big deal of it, when the time is right he will tell you. If he stutters, just keep eye contact and show him that you are empathetic. It worked for me and we'll be celebrating ou...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Dating & RomanceValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterJan 3, 2019
8 points

How do I ask if this guy I’m starting to date if he has a stutter?

How do I ask if this guy I’m starting to date if he has a stutter? [deleted]...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2018
2 points

Human female here lol. If you feel more at ease telling her beforehand, do that. However if I was in the woman’s shoes and I was vibing with a guy via text, I wouldn’t be put off by a stutter. I alrea...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2018
1 points

Do you struggle with repetitions , prolongations , or blocks ? How do you approach women with having a stutter ,for example initiating a conversations etc . ...

Speech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Repetitions & ProlongationsBlocks & StoppagesDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2018
48 points

It seems like a good thing to do. BUT don’t make some big fucking deal about it. Just make a joke out of it. Don’t be like “So, there’s something I have to tell you about me...” Fuck that. Just be li...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
postr/StutterDec 28, 2018
21 points

Should I tell her I stutter before the first date?

Should I tell her I stutter before the first date? [deleted]...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2018
3 points

Hubs and I have been married for nine years and married for 12. We met in college through the school paper but didn't start dating 'til we both graduated--we got drunk at a newspaper reunion and admit...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2018
1 points

Online dating -- [OK Cupid](https://www.okcupid.com/), I think? I'm not particularly outgoing, but we connected and that's what mattered. Stuttering never came up ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2018
1 points

so, i mean that i was putting a lot of time and energy into dating and trying to find a partner. i had an account on match and okcupid (i don't know if these are sites kids still use), i was working o...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2018
2 points

My stutter is relatively mild when talking to girls man. I just treat them like anyone else and if I don’t get with one it doesn’t matter. Theres plenty more. Go lift to build up your confidence and t...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerDating & RomanceHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 27, 2018
1 points

How'd u get a gf with ur stutter dude???? I cant even talk to girls...

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Advice RequestsDating & Romance