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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
4 points

I have to say this certainly isn't uncommon. There's been times in my life through adolescence and also because of trauma or heartbreak that sent my speech into a free fall. I would avoid talking to p...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
7 points

Maybe it has to do with your arrogant, pious, egotistical attitude. Some of us would be satisfied just to improve our confidence with a stutter, others might want treatment to curb the severity. It de...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
1 points

Look life Is hard with a stutter there's nothing we can do, I find myself not talking much when I'm out working are just out period and it's depressing and sucks so bad but don't let It stop you from...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
1 points

I saw that you are german. Was dir auf keinen Fall passieren darf ist das du dich in so einem “was wäre wenn” denken verlierst, denn sowas bringt dir nichts und zieht dich nur weiter runter. Leider ka...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
1 points

I relate and agree with this. I always think… would I rather have no arms or stutter. I think no arms is worse. Not invaliding a stutter by any means I mean that’s just what gets me through the rough ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2022
0 points

Others owe us NO duty to wait for our speech. I am wasting peoples valuable and finite time by stuttering. It's sad, but true....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 26, 2022
11 points

I can't shake the feeling that there is a way to get rid of my stutter.

I can't shake the feeling that there is a way to get rid of my stutter. I believe my stutter is a confidence issue but that also doesn't exactly make much sense, as even in tense situations, I can spe...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Helplessness & AgencyOverthinking & MonitoringBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2022
1 points

I feel you mate, i am sorry that you have to go through all of this, i am sure that you are very skillful and social person, unfortunately, i don't have any advises, cause, speech therapist told me to...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2022
3 points

This stupid disorder is the main root cause for every single problem in my life. Depression. Low self esteem. Low social skills. Low confidence. Isolation. EVERYTHING! ​ Screw this....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2022
5 points

I truly understand your pain regarding it, my stutter makes me feel trapped inside my own mind... I don't really have any advice to give, I've been told the same bs as you after asking for help. I per...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 24, 2022
11 points

Been stuttering since I was 3. I need help.

Been stuttering since I was 3. I need help. Stuttering is like a knife in my chest. I am so sick of it, I feel like breaking down. I have been stuttering since I was 3. I don't know why, and I cannot...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyFriendships & BelongingFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2022
21 points

Story of every stutterer ever. We can’t even fathom what we have lost in life and what we could have gained in life. If we don’t have stuttering....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2022
3 points

👆 This. I get your sentiment and wish to comfort him, but you truly wont understand his struggles as a non-stutterer. He feels lonely and unheard in his battle with speech. The best thing you can ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 23, 2022
9 points

Am i the ass hole?

Am i the ass hole? hey folks ! so i (19f) and my boyfriend (21m) who stutters have a major conflict. He has been nearing his job interview and he told me that if he can’t communicate he is useless. i ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2022
2 points

Am sorry to hear that pal, although you may have rights and you could fight and get your job back, the question you need to answer is, do you want to do this every working day, I assume 5 days a week ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2022
1 points

I think it's because its one of the few words that we can't substitute a different word for.. your name is your name,so you're forced to say it and the speaking stress makes you stutter on it. I've h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2022
2 points

Rejected from what? A job, a relationship, a sports league, a night club? In my experience, the rejection was either blatant or impossible to confirm. Since it’s rarely blatant, I try not need to d...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJun 22, 2022
3 points

How do you if you’ve been rejected because of you stutter?

How do you if you’ve been rejected because of you stutter? I’m a rather bad stutterer however I can’t say I’ve been rejected because of it. Is this an excuse? I’m not against anyone this is a genu...

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Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2022
2 points

A stutter absolutely does affect one’s life. It’s affected mine a lot. There are ways we choose to let it affect our lives (I’m not going to go talk to that person because I’m scared I’ll stutter) and...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2022
0 points

I heard about this book, and yes, reviews are really good, but i was too lazy to try it out, cause, when i try to do something about stutter and it doesn't work, it makes me feel hopeless, also i don'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency