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Am i the ass hole? hey folks ! so i (19f) and my boyfriend (21m) who stutters have a major conflict. He has been nearing his job interview and he told me that if he can’t communicate he is useless. i understood his emotions but i didn’t think he was useless because of his stutter. i told him that many interviewers have different criteria and it’s possible for you to land a job if you match their criteria. i also told him that communication is also about how efficient and consice information you give. i am not ignoring his struggles. i got really sad that he thought he was useless. he got really offended and he is telling me he is really is hurt because i am ignoring his struggles and giving him advice. but this is not an advice ,i just wanted him to know that other perfspective is there and i don’t think that he is useless . i also said a lot of other things but its not like i didn’t let him finish. idk maybe i should let him feel his feelings and get over them because i feel i do more harm than good for telling him stuff like that . what should i change? and am i an asshole?