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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
2 points

From my experience the more you try to not stutter, the more you do. Just try not to think about it and let it go. If the catastrophe happens, say sorry to the class and tell them that you stutter, if...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
2 points

I think the element of social rejection is limited when speaking alone, as well as there are likely more negative [value judgements ](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Value_judgment)we attribute to our s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
2 points

Unfortunately, I’m in a customer facing role (on the phone) and my stuttering gets really bad especially when I feel I’m under pressure. 😢...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 21, 2025
5 points

I can’t stop thinking about my 1st day.

I can’t stop thinking about my 1st day. Today was my first day of training as a crisis counselor, and I can’t stop replaying the words I messed up on. We had to introduce ourselves and participate in ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJan 21, 2025
2 points

Today was the first day of group training

Today was the first day of group training Today was my first day of training as a crisis counselor, and I can’t stop replaying the words I messed up on. We had to introduce ourselves and participate i...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
1 points

I don’t stutter when I’m alone. I also don’t stutter when talking in an Indian or Asian accent. I do stutter when I am recording myself alone tho. It’s the fear of knowing someone else could hear...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
2 points

Ah, I am glad you get it))) And — I am very probably autistic (undiagnoded because no one cares, not bc no one notices) I struggle to make eye contact in general and it seems to affect how people rea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
1 points

Yes, I completely understand what you mean. You’re referring to the overly optimistic avoidance perspective that aims to quench all reasonable internal strife and pain that we feel. I presume like mos...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
1 points

This is interesting im sure some ppl do but most probably dont. Its 100% mental for me. As soon as i stsrt feeling anxious it gets so much worse. Im still trying to figure out why sometimes i do and s...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightCycles & Randomness
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
9 points

It's interesting, I have a severe stutter but when I'm alone I can spend hours talking out loud and not a single blockage, but the moment I perceive or think that someone may be listening to me, a "cl...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
3 points

I get a nervous stammer which is obnoxious. I'm terrible in meetings, public speaking, and reading aloud in front of people. I also do half breathing where when I'm talking to somebody sometimes I'll ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic SpeakingFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
1 points

Not at all. I do get really anxious when send a voice mail i but i pull through somehow without stuttering...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterJan 21, 2025
12 points

Does your stutter affect your work job?

Does your stutter affect your work job? I'm a 17 years old wanting to do a part time job like a cashier or in a retail store that can earn me some good bucks to get ahead in life. Here's the thing, ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJan 21, 2025
2 points

Building accent as a non-native English speaker?

Building accent as a non-native English speaker? My English used to be almost stutter-free until one day I decided that I wanna sound like a native. And that ruined my speech to the extent I cannot s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
3 points

I’ve got a lot of girls off dating apps and a lot of girls from mutual friends I just want to cold Approach and get comfortable making conversations with strangers and being confident that’s all...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2025
2 points

Your comment brings me a sort of joy, I'm not too sure how to explain. But I think we need more people like you in the world <3 I guess my worry is that they notice and judge, and whatnot. People ofte...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
1 points

I’m mild stutter too. Don’t worry and don’t be panic...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
2 points

I’d say people notice, but they just often attribute it to “nervousness”. I remember I asked someone how they felt about me before they got to know me and some words I would hear is “ nervous” and “ u...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
1 points

I live with my dh who has a more noticeable stutter than you. I think he would trade places with you. Yes, I knew a girl today spoke similar to you. I’m more sensitive to it, because my dh stutters so...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2025
1 points

It can be very weird at first but don’t worry pls. I think I was too much in my head and I would Forget to just have fun with other people. I made great friends but I could’ve done more tbh. Just be u...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & BelongingMindset shift