Search

commentr/StutterJul 13, 2019
16 points

I’m actually at a point where I don’t care if I’m accepted by others. I recently loaned out a ton of money to someone that isn’t going to pay me back and I have to sue him. I also recently had a girl ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2019
2 points

Hm, you write "*are* affected by it", and truth be told, due to the fact that I'm fortunate enough to be around nice people, it doesn't affect me much these days. Everyone is patient and understanding...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2019
3 points

Yeah, I’ve always thought that must be the most frustrating thing, being able to picture what you want to say but it not coming out well...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2019
3 points

It really hinders communication and socialization. Ive been known to be a very funny, charismatic person on the occasions where my stutter isnt bad. And when I have the perfect sentence in my head, i ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Frustration & AngerAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2019
1 points

My grandma has a mild stutter, but she is pretty good at hiding it so you can't really notice it unless you have a long conversation with her. Mine is a bit worse than hers though. We don't talk about...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsAnxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2019
3 points

You have certainly gotten to a point I have not yet then. I don't dwell on it for hours but it does bother me when there have been times when I didn't stutter on a word or a person's name. I didn't th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJul 3, 2019
39 points

How can people like their stutter?

How can people like their stutter? I just don't get this. I hear success stories from so many people who have made true acceptance with their stutter, with themselves. These are the people who no long...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PridePhysical TensionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2019
1 points

I just logged in because I was going to post an issue I have been struggling with, but I saw this post and just had to comment. I have 2: M and N. The two nasal sounds. These are the absolute worst an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2019
3 points

Probably M. And sure enough, I have to use that letter to address my elders as Mr. and Mrs./Ms. Thanks brain for always helping me!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJul 1, 2019
24 points

Anyone else decide talking is simply not worth it?

Anyone else decide talking is simply not worth it? For the last 6 months, I've been backpacking and staying in hostels so I'm constantly meeting new people. I've been trying to take advantage of this ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureFriendships & BelongingFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2019
3 points

Lot of fucking problems we people have.... Decision making in that situation can only be handled by us....This is nothing.... But still Relatable AF...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2019
3 points

I used to do that too. Then one time it happened again, but I really wanted to try out this new menu and I literally screamed at them to hold up and place my new order. Best Burger i ever had...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2019
1 points

if someone doesnt give you the time to make your point , but u handle it with strength then u won the argumemt bc you cant argue with stupid ppl...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2019
1 points

Not being able to say “sorry,” “thank you,” “nice to meet you,” “you, too,” (in response to “have a good day”) or even the big one: “I love you,” is very emotionally draining for a good-natured stutte...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2019
3 points

Bi annual reviews at work always put the pressure on me being wrong and I never get to put pressure back on them. It sucks....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJun 23, 2019
33 points

Stuttering and conflict

Stuttering and conflict For me, one of the most frustrating things about stuttering is dealing with conflict. I get into an argument with someone over something, and have a very hard time explaining m...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger+1 more
postr/StutterJun 22, 2019
25 points

Fucked up an order and couldn't say sorry

Fucked up an order and couldn't say sorry The worse part is it was over the phone. Stuttered on every word and had word blocks. I feel like shit. Why can't I just make a sound? It's so fucking simple....

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterJun 21, 2019
23 points

I'm tired

I'm tired My whole life I have tried my best to ignore my speech disfluency. I have tried to cover it up, I have tried to hide it. I have never succeed. I'm tired of being embarrassed at work or at ho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Hiding & ConcealmentFrustration & AngerSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2019
3 points

My stutter has ruined countless punch lines. It's almost worse when everyone just politely waits for you to spit it out and half asses a laugh . "I don't need your sympathy chuckles you fucks" usuall...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2019
2 points

My parents arent supportive of my stutter, they're very impatient. They also used to do this thing, mostly my mom, where she would ask me to say a sentence without stuttering, which put pressure on me...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict