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postr/StutterJul 28, 2022
16 points

Are you unintentionally making stuttering worse?

Are you unintentionally making stuttering worse? Hello, I just got done with my speech session today and my therapist made a comment that made me think. How many of you, when you think about stutter...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
2 points

yeah its the worst i never spoke unless im sure that i wont stutter sometimes i think the whole sentence before speak and i try to think the sentence as a image in my mind and read from it it really h...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
4 points

One more thing that helped me... try as hard you can to focus on the context of the situation, not how you are you going to say it. Typical speakers dont focus on their speech in these situations. R...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterJul 26, 2022
4 points

Moving past embarrassment and mental blocks?

Moving past embarrassment and mental blocks? So for context, I have a block stutter and it just shows up whenever it wants, but I mostly stutter in nervous situations or when I think that I’m gonna st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
1 points

nice, but is there a level of uncertainty when talking. this might be from the overall knowledge of material, or the feeling of how others might perceive your disability and project that onto your abi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

The images we create present themselves in mind-body states. In other words if you see yourself on the edge of a cliff about to fall off thatll send your body into a state of panic or if you imagine a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

Understanding the language of your mind, the images we present to ourselves, the meaning we place on these images and certain events etc are all important aspects of understanding the problem. Just tr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

Cold, all too close, faint colours like those black and white illusions you see And yeah there’s fluency after I’ve fried my brain a bit...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

I only say you don't have a stuttering problem because once you view it as something "wrong" or something needing to be "fixed" or mind has already added negative connotations to stuttering (alot of i...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Authenticity vs. MaskingOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
2 points

Tell me about these intense situations? What goes through your mind before you're about to stutter? Are there times where you're fluent? Are you perhaps fluent when you're speaking to yourself? If you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

Do you know why he doesn't stutter when he plays sports? Because his conscious and unconscious mind isn't focused on stuttering. He's playing a sport, his internal dialog and imagery would be centered...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

What causes you to block? Is it anticipating saying something? Is it because you think the other person will judge you for stuttering? When you think about a time you stuttered or perhaps a time when ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

What holds you back? Is it because when you imagine playing those games you see yourself stuttering in your head before you've even given yourself to enjoy the games? Tell me about your thought proces...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2022
13 points

Hell no man! We gotta learn to love ourselves first. For all the good and the bad. All the strengthens and flaws. Nobodies better or worse than you. I’m a chronic overthinker so I’ve definitely been ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideOverthinking & MonitoringHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2022
1 points

Yes, thats exactly what I'm trying to tell you. You need be comfortable with yourself in whatever you're doing. I'm sorry you had to go through 'near total destruction' while trying to push yourself t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2022
2 points

My speech therapist tries to get me to do this. It’s a lot of work. It’s not necessarily just saying to yourself “it’s okay you’re too anxious” “or calm down it’s okay”…it’s more getting yourself to F...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 21, 2022
5 points

Talking to yourself while speaking

Talking to yourself while speaking Is this even possible? I am talking about literally getting orders from yourself while talking, not during pauses, literally while you are moving your mouth. Has an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2022
2 points

> I have been over thinking it and kind of built a subconscious fear of speaking. I have a big feeling that that anxiety I have built upon myself is the reason for my worsening stutter. Your insti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 19, 2022
7 points

First time posting on Reddit, first time even trying to talk about/explain my stutter.

First time posting on Reddit, first time even trying to talk about/explain my stutter. My stutter runs within my family, my grandma from my dads side has a minor stutter and a few of my cousins also h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
1 points

For me it’s “thank you” because it comes across as automatic with no thought behind it, and planning my words takes thought. It’s really awkward when I’m talking to strangers....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment