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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
7 points

I avoid going to busy restaurants because I know the waiter will be in hurry to take order and it will be noisy so he won't be able to hear me. This just adds more pressure. Or I just point to the dis...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
18 points

Only last week I was ordering a sandwich from a shop and the man behind the counter told me to “get it out” when I struggled to say mayo. I hate this shit sometimes...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Frustration & AngerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
18 points

I either let my mom order or try to find a sentence where I can put in that word to order, plus extra instructions. Not gonna eat something I don't like because I stutter. I still hate ordering drinks...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
6 points

Half the reason I order patty melts. The other half being "patty melts are awesome." But I've been known to just go for the melt even if there's other awesome stuff just because I'll have trouble orde...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
5 points

This indeed, how can such a simple thing as ordering anything, end up been such a nerve wrecking experience, same with drive thrus, I end up ordering something I don't want before the thing I do wa...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

My sister’s boss has a stutter and for years didn’t have good fluency. He’s in his late 50s/early 60s and is a scientist who does a lot of public presentations at conferences etc. I didn’t even know h...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
2 points

Try to be confident what I've noticed is the less you care the less other people will care if they feel you don't care about it then they won't see it as a bad thing about just a minor inconvenience a...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2023
1 points

I've never had a problem getting any girl I went after. Being timid does not mean you don't have confidence, it means you don't show confidence. Too much confidence comes off as cocky, and alot of wom...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2023
3 points

I attended a conference where there was a stutterer much worse than me. While I sat quietly listening and didn’t dare to raise my hand, he was the most vocal one among hundreds of attendees. He asked ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2023
3 points

Hey OP i would personally prefer 1. Something I searched up that I feel like would help you alot is the “spotlight effect” which can help with social anxiety. And that basically means “We tend to thin...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2023
3 points

Hi, the keyword you are looking for is covert stuttering. https://stamurai.com/blog/guide-to-covert-stuttering/...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
postr/StutterApr 5, 2023
11 points

What I learnt thus far.

What I learnt thus far. I presented yesterday at my uni (sort of) yeah I didn't get pass the first word lol but upon going up to the stage with my group I felt what I didn't feel in years. Pretty much...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterApr 5, 2023
12 points

Frustrations and Worries

Frustrations and Worries (I’m sorry this is so long I just needed a place to get this all out) I’m a freshman at college right now, and I’m going through a bit of a transformative period of my life....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2023
1 points

Its an anti-psychotic (ik it sounds scary), the prescription is purely for stuttering. No side effects aside from a bit of sleepiness in the first 2 weeks....

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentHarmful Med Outcomes
postr/StutterApr 3, 2023
17 points

glad so have found this subreddit

glad so have found this subreddit im a 20 yo who has been stuttering since i was about 6-7. my entire life has revolved arround my stuttering and had been a huge burden on me. school was always stre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2023
3 points

Great post 3-7 really hit me hard, especially 3. I never had a speech therapist because stuttering ran through my family so my parents became my natural therapists (LOL). I think 3 really hits home be...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Genetic & Family FactorsHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2023
16 points

Not letting it control you. Easier said than done, I know from experience. However, your stutter may improve significantly if you’re not obsessing over the fact that you MAY stutter. It’s helped me as...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2023
0 points

Kinda unpopular opinion, but there's a chance we can see where they're coming from. Restaurants (food business in general) can get unbelievably busy and stressful, that was probably a stress-yell. Not...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2023
1 points

This will give further power and influence to your stutter and strengthen it's grasp on your self esteem and consciousness. You don't want to be a slave to fluency. It's a miserable way to life and a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2023
2 points

Now I only think about stuttering when I'm with high authority figures/really pretty girls, but expanding my chest out and imagining myself confident helps immensely...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment