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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2021
1 points

That wassup bro same thing with me I don’t stutter with her or nothing only sometimes I even told her I had a mild stutter ounce I felt safe around her...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2021
1 points

Dang nice! That might be how it happens with me too. I don’t stutter much around her. There’s a few people I rarely stutter around and she’s one! I think that means I feel safe around her idk...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2021
1 points

Yeah you’re right. These people probably won’t even remember me it’s just so hard to not overthink this. I think it is discrimination but it’s my fault too I guess for not being honest with her...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2021
2 points

I agree with the essence. Judging by your testimonials, you're probably a mild stutterer (like myself). In this case, it is in fact true that our stuttering, or the way we speak in general, is largely...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2021
1 points

Thanks for sharing. I agree with what you have stated because is resonates with me and my specific stuttering case. Changing the mind is the hardest thing we will ever try to do....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 31, 2021
59 points

One of my most valuable realizations about stuttering

One of my most valuable realizations about stuttering I'm going to share one of the most important realizations I've had in my stuttering journey. 🧠 This realization has allowed me to have the corre...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2021
1 points

very ture! support from Taiwan! i am a stutter in Taiwan and i feel the same way as your description. i think stutter is coming from overcontrol in speech. and i can find out many control in ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2021
1 points

If I don’t stutter I’m probably lying, as the true answer was blocked, and I gave up trying to say it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2021
2 points

I've come to realize attempts to completely eradicate it are too forceful and short-lasting. You may reach a new high, but you also get a new low. If you were to accept it, chances are you would stil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterAug 24, 2021
14 points

🗣 The ONLY 2 reasons you get stuck in a stuttering state. (Part 1 of 2)

🗣 The ONLY 2 reasons you get stuck in a stuttering state. (Part 1 of 2) I'm going to quickly share some psychology backed information of why we get stuck inside of a stuttering state.  First of all...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingLoss of Control
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2021
5 points

To add to this, if it does come to the point of self awareness down the road, I wish someone told me it was OK to stutter and it is nothing to be ashamed of. Not something that has to fixed at all co...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2021
2 points

It seems like you really want to get into this, I would advise you to keep on trying. I had the same worry when becoming an EMT but my class went great even with a comment every once and a while about...

School & WorkCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2021
9 points

Sometimes the ones who hide it the best also struggle the worst. They constantly jump through hoops, fear, anxiety, running away, avoidance behavior, skipping activities, literally hiding. Sometimes ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
postr/StutterAug 18, 2021
16 points

Speaking naturally follows the same principles of having fulfilling sex.

Speaking naturally follows the same principles of having fulfilling sex. Speaking naturally follows the same principles of having fulfilling sex. Ouu taboo? Good. I'm going to be extremely vulnera...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & WeightMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2021
19 points

Mine got a lot better when I moved from avoidance behavior to going on the offense. Basically feeling the fear but forcing myself into speaking situations. Allowing myself to stutter openly to reduce ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2021
3 points

You mentioned in another comment that your stutter is mild. I think you will be fine. It is true that most people are not too aware of the stuttering disorder. On the other hand, most people also d...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2021
2 points

Thank you, mate :) I should have mentioned that my stuttering is usually mild, gets moderate-severe rarely when I have to speak in front of a big audience or any similar situation, so generally I woul...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2021
2 points

Yes and yes this is what i feel and sure most of us but knowing your not the only one ease a little bit, dont overthink it late it go people dont give a shit about other people probles they will forge...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 13, 2021
5 points

One of the most valuable skills I have learned that helps me speak naturally in high stress situations 👇

One of the most valuable skills I have learned that helps me speak naturally in high stress situations 👇 One of the most valuable skills I have learned that helps me speak naturally in high stress si...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2021
16 points

More proof that we get in our own heads sooo much. If we can get out of them, it's not that the stutter doesn't go away, but it does lessen because we care less. Love this story....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking