very ture! support from Taiwan! i am a stutter in Taiwan and i feel the same way as your description. i think stutter is coming from overcontrol in speech. and i can find out many control in my life , my stutter getting better as i start to get rid of these control. it is similar as you mention that try to disguise yourself to please others. i dont know if it make sense to you. thank you for writing these article! i like it so much!