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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2022
4 points

The last point there was a good tip. Yeah if I make a decision not based on my stuttering, only problem is the remaining time I'll be bickering and stressing out relentlessly what that decision will ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2022
12 points

Can't upvote this enough! I got bit by the flying bug in the middle of high school about 20 years ago and started my flying lessons immediately after graduating in 2003. Having to talk on the airplane...

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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2022
25 points

You're more than just 'a stutterer.' FFS, the President of the USA is a stutterer. Learn some coping skills if stress is an issue. Pursue your dreams. You've already conceded too much power to your...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2022
42 points

Don't avoid things, work on it. I'm not saying to fix your stutter, I mean to work on your mindset. This is coming from someone who has to pick up phone calls and handle face-to-face enquiries at the ...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Mindset shiftEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2022
1 points

Be moderate in how you do this, but like what the other commenter said, lessen the importance of other people when talking to them. Don't be a dick because you might be get TOO comfortable lol, but j...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2022
2 points

Jump straight into fear! Few years ago I struggled to decide if I wanna go to Thailand and teach English to school kids, the idea scared the shit out of me. But do you wanna let fear control your lif...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2022
5 points

Yes it works perfectly. This is stage 1, slowly you move on to the part where you reach ‘public speaking’. It’s a slow process. If you complete his course or book it’s written in it. All the comments ...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Positive Therapy TechniquesMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2022
3 points

Over the years I’ve been able to develop a, simply put- “I don’t give a fuck” attitude. You have a voice. You have something to offer the world. Be confident in those situations, be brave. It can be h...

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Mindset shiftOverthinking & MonitoringPreparation & Rehearsal+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2022
4 points

I love it! Hearing (well reading) these things is always awesome! I've been stuttering since as long as I could remember. I remember when I was 17, sitting in front of the Army recruiter, with a writ...

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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2022
7 points

What I've found is most mature people don't care whether we stutter or not. I recently had a interview for an internship (couldn't take it due to conflict of hours) but it went really well, which was...

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Mindset shiftEmployment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterJan 31, 2022
13 points

Stutter Streamer

Stutter Streamer Hey guys! I've been making YouTube videos for a while now, but always was hesitant about streaming. Recording something is much easier for me, since if I have a stutter fit, I can go ...

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Mindset shiftHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2022
9 points

All stutterers feel this way.Don’t beat yourself up. When you speak, speak slowly and say no more than 4 to 5 words at a time. Read out loud to yourself 1 hour a day. You need to hear fluency from yo...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2022
2 points

If you can say one word anytime, you can say any word anytime. It’s all in your brain. You are recalling the bad stuttering memories. Replace them with fluency. Read out loud at least an hour a day. H...

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Fluency TechniquesExperiential AssociationMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2022
5 points

Yes Lee's methods works. I myself was a sever stutterer since the age three now after reading Lee's book and taking sessions and using his methods. I don't stutter anymore. His methods are about pract...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Positive Therapy TechniquesMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2022
1 points

this might help you mentally no one gives a shit , they see you you do your thing they forget about you and move onto the next one , in 2 3 4 days months or years no one remembers you . These people ...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2022
4 points

The more you do it the easier it will get. You need to develop a different mentality. Go on the attack. What are speaking situations that scare you? Get out of your comfort zone and start engaging in ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2022
2 points

In regards to learn to not giving a fuck, since the phone is high pressure for you, perhaps practice not giving a fuck in medium pressure situations. It then may be easier to do that for the phone. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2022
3 points

Very good point. It is pretty much the same as that phrase, especially since when acting, then nervousness is always to convey some script point....

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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2022
1 points

The times I’m lacking concentration, or I’m emotional I remind myself; “Between a stimulus and a response, there’s a choice”....

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2022
2 points

I don't get your point. Do you mean stuttering is not that horrible or something? If you mean 'curing' stuttering is not a realistic goal then I agree, but if you say mitigating stutter/improving flue...

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Severity & FluctuationMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride