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postr/StutterApr 19, 2023
18 points

Stuttering in Class

Stuttering in Class I just want to share my experience here. 2 hours ago, I was at school and I decided to go home early because I really can't handle the embarrassment after I've just talked in front...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2023
2 points

i was getting trained for work had a question, now imagine your trying to hold in a sneeze and yk how ur head like kicks forward and down a little, on a bad block i do that basically. The trainer said...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterApr 18, 2023
3 points

Strange dream about my stutter when I was 7

Strange dream about my stutter when I was 7 I always remember this dream I had way back when I was 7 or younger. I'd had a stutter from about 4-5 years old but it would only last a few weeks before go...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesCycles & RandomnessShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
3 points

Wow,that’s very unfortunate,no parents should mock their children stuttering. It’s awful,very sad🥹🥹🥹...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
2 points

I also have similar situations , once I wanted some earphones and I was telling my dad to buy me it and he said “ you can’t even talk what the need of them” . I still remember that day and it still hu...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
3 points

Most of the time I don’t really care when people makes jokes about my stutter . None of my friends do or my parents but it’s just sometimes when they do it just stays inside my heart for a long time a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
5 points

When I was a teenager we had company over the house and I was trying to explain something. I was having a really tough time and after I was mostly finished my dad laughed and said, "it's like he's spe...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
1 points

I completely agree with the point OP is making. I’ve tried to be positive and say f*ck it and just deal with it. I’ve tried to accept it. But what happens is, you start to believe these sugar coated t...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
1 points

Like hell I'm facing stammering every minute every day Im struggling to Speak communicate interact like other people but I can't… people just laugh at my stammering and humiliate me no one Understands...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
25 points

Still remember as if it was yesterday, when I was young, many years ago. I stuttered and my mother copied my stuttering in a very sarcastic way. One of the most psychologically painful experience I ha...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
27 points

Well yeah it throws you off because it’s mean. My mom joked about my stutter once and I still remember it. Once during a nasty argument she said “go to your room I can’t stand the sound of your voice ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
2 points

I know it has been said in the post several times, but it is an important point: fuck them. That was a shitty situation, but its not that uncommon. Some people just suck, but fuck them. Don't let the ...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
2 points

No, they didn't value me enough. I had an abusive childhood and they just generally treated me badly, I even believed they ‘gave me’ to a child monster because I wasn't perfect and even was a little c...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterApr 15, 2023
13 points

parents always devalued my stuttering

parents always devalued my stuttering Stuttered severely since I learned how to speak. But they always said that it will disappear when I grow up. I lived in a village and it wasn't possible to get a ...

Social & RelationshipsCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Family Support & ConflictTrauma & PsychologicalFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
1 points

Oh no, that's cruel. The worst is when people make fun of a stutter. In high school it made me feel so ashamed about it...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
3 points

Yeah man life sucks for some people because they have some shitty condition like stuttering. Those people who are laughing have no clue about what we are going through...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
3 points

My ex bf insulted my stutter during one of our last fights as a couple. Since then I’m an introvert...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
3 points

I'm so sorry to hear about your experience during the presentation. It's disheartening when people react insensitively to something beyond your control. Remember, your stutter does not define your wor...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeShame & EmbarrassmentAccess & Rights
postr/StutterApr 14, 2023
15 points

Feeling like shit. Wish i could just live alone forever.

Feeling like shit. Wish i could just live alone forever. this has ruined my social life completely i just hate it. I don't see a bright future for myself at all. I often feel like I could have been s...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of LifeShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
1 points

I block terribly like completely I feel like it made me more of an introvert and harmed my confidence, self-esteem etc but I don’t think it’s really fair to pin it all to the stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment