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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2020
1 points

Easier said than done but you need to start not giving a shit about what they say and their comments and also address the very obvious comments (leave this last part for when you really don't give a s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2020
2 points

This. I personally get frustrated when people who know I stutter don't finish my sentence....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2020
2 points

Don’t you ever feel ashamed of your stutter. You need to put people like that in their place. It enrages me when people look down at us like that. We are perfectly capable of talking, god forbid someo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2020
1 points

Don’t get me wrong any other person I would refuse to take this kind of disrespect, but we were able to connect emotionally so quickly that I felt that I was obligated to keep trying to see it through...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2020
2 points

if you dont know the sister’s friend that well then thats just a dick move and she had no reason to butt in and tell you to spit it out...

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Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
1 points

Nah that’s not a good excuse. Sure maybe they hadn’t seen a stutter before, but that doesn’t justify saying “spit it out”, which is a phrase I cannot see being used without at least some means of disr...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
1 points

Yes! I’ve been telling him to stop ever since we started talking WELL over 3 weeks ago. He said he would try to stop, but he hasn’t. And then he wants to be upset with me because I get irritated. Than...

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Frustration & AngerListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
2 points

Thank you so much understanding and being considerate about it. But you’re right it’s not a wuss thing it just usually never happens, no one I talk to points out my stutter like that so I haven’t gott...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
4 points

It doesn’t make you a wuss to be upset, stuff like that hurts. Smart move getting out of there though, I would’ve probably done the same thing...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
3 points

She apologized but not in person I left the house after to go hangout with friends. I just needed to get away from that environment I kept getting teary eyed not to sound like a wuss....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
6 points

Trust me in my head I felt so disrespected. I’m not sure if we can curse in this thread so i’m going to keep it clean. But I just wanted to tell her to get the heck out of my house if you're gonna tel...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJul 14, 2020
55 points

Saddened

Saddened Just to keep it short and simple yesterday I went downstairs to go eat with my family. My sisters friend had came over so we began to talk. It was casual talk but then I started speaking to m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJul 14, 2020
2 points

Exercising is impairing my stutter

Exercising is impairing my stutter Hey, so there have been few times in my life where I've taken up weightlifting with, sadly, negative results for my stutter. This time I was only exercising at home...

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Stress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological RhythmsFluency Techniques+1 more
postr/StutterJul 14, 2020
14 points

I keep getting cut off

I keep getting cut off So I’m talking to this guy. I’ve been talking to him for a few months now, and he’s been starting to really tick me off. I’ve told him that I have a stutter and that I need to b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2020
1 points

that would would fine but the thing is i have very few things that can actually distract me so now when that happens i just have to sit alone for a while and try fucking talk...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2020
2 points

We all feel you OP . Things that work for me when I am having a panic attack. Try to hit the reset button of your mind . Usually taking a nap or going for long walks of jogs helps or playing a video...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2020
16 points

Damn, that sucks. It's these little things that added up, at the end of the day become really frustrating. I respect you for helping your parents out and maintaining a job as a delivery guy, must be t...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJul 11, 2020
4 points

god damn conversations

god damn conversations yall know why im here. i STUTTER. not to much but enough to be a huge inconvenience, when im bouta stutter i just pause for a few mins so i don't sound lie an idiot. my friend w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
2 points

I mean having a twinbrother every argument/discussion that I am winning (which is quite usual, since I am better versed in arguments surrounding social-economic problems) results in him going like “O-...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
2 points

I completely understand, believe me, I've had my stutter for 44 years. One thing I would do is tell your parents that their mocking/teasing is not appropriate nor would I allow it with my parents. Y...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger