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commentr/StutterNov 15, 2024
5 points

Channel that anger into action, that's the only way forward. I was also too embarrassed to talk about or even think about my stutter until now that I'm over 30 and I'm regretful that I waited for so l...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2024
3 points

If you want to do that power to you, the name you want to go by is the name you should go by. My name is hard for me to say too personally, but I make a point of introducing myself by name regardless ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnticipating Stuttering
postr/StutterNov 14, 2024
25 points

just getting it all out

just getting it all out i am a 23m that stuttered my whole life, never felt the feeling of being fluent. i dont know if it makes any sense, but i feel anger rather than sadness, angry on whom? idk. ev...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2024
1 points

>But, a more scientific answer would be: >A self-image: Introjection basically changes our identification (attaching to something negative/positive) and the image that we see ourselves as. Regardin...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2024
1 points

Thank you for your comment about when I underwent hypnosis. In response to your question >*"Why did you want to go back to stuttering?"* It's becuase it felt like something was wrong, after all, I ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
3 points

This is the case for most stutters. Most of us can speak fluently when alone, but stutter in front of others. A therapist I used to work with would say "what if you were reading aloud in your room...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionFluency Techniques+1 more
postr/StutterNov 12, 2024
14 points

It's so annoying when people say "people who stutter don't stutter when___"

It's so annoying when people say "people who stutter don't stutter when___" I've heard people say: "People who stutter don't stutter when they read out loud" "People who stutter don't stutter when t...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2024
1 points

THIS!! I am lifelong stutterer and now I find ways to speak at industry events and get on stage. The first couple of times were intimidating … but … once I believed that I belonged on stage and was a...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationPublic SpeakingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 12, 2024
12 points

You don't Need to Prove Yourself to Anyone.

You don't Need to Prove Yourself to Anyone. I've been thinking about this for a very long time and as a person who stutters, I feel like I'm in a good position to talk about this. Over the many many y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2024
1 points

Yaa you are right, thank you for your insightful answer. From now on i guess i will try to socialize more and care less about my stuttering. I stutter severely when I'm conscious about it like if I'm ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 11, 2024
6 points

Adults, was your job/career influenced by your stutter?

Adults, was your job/career influenced by your stutter? I graduated college a few years ago. Now, I'm working at job that makes decent money. It really just kind of happened - I didn't really think to...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2024
0 points

I do agree a lot with the "paradigm" shift theories. Thanks so much! >Change your paradigm and you might not stutter anymore. Such a simple and elegant statement....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2024
1 points

I literally wrote a book about my experience with this same thing. Stuttering is a paradigm your in. Change your paradigm and you might not stutter anymore. I love this post!!!! Your a rockstar!!!...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2024
1 points

Political trolls, bots, or stupid people. Comment section on youtube, facebook, tiktok is usually cesspoll, like repeating that biden ate icecream as some fault and god hundred of likes. Also these co...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2024
5 points

I’m so deeply sorry this has been your experience. You are not crazy, and your mother is just wrong on many levels. Again, I’m so sorry. If you ever need someone to listen to you, lend advice, etc....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2024
1 points

There are tons of people i've seen on kill tony with stutters or tics that are legitimately hilarious. Keep practicing and you'll gain the confidence and the skill. You'll find a way to work through...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2024
7 points

I am so sorry to hear this happened to you. I can assure you of one thing, you are NOT crazy, my friend. We are many out there that stutters and we don’t stutter because it is something specific we ha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2024
8 points

No no no, you’ve completely misunderstood the meaning of the photo/ this post. The gold gun you see in the photo is a very rare gun in the game Fortnite. This post, as well as the original post isn’t...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 10, 2024
11 points

Till when we will keep giving stutter as excuse

Till when we will keep giving stutter as excuse No one cares about victims for long. We have to show up and get shit done. Let me share you a story of indian billionaire deepinder goyal. He stutter...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2024
1 points

If what you say about society is true why does it not bear fruit for all stutterers?  The claim from OP is that society judges based on their fluency and favors articulate communication, where is the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more