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commentr/StutterNov 19, 2020
1 points

I can relate to this a lot. sometimes I can make a really quick/good joke or compliment without really thinking about it and it gets a laugh/they remember it in the future. I can't really do much more...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2020
1 points

Maybe but I do not believe so. Whenever I talk I focus on the different pitches in my voice the speed at which I’m talking and which words I can and can’t say which helps with my stutter and even whil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2020
1 points

Why can’t you join debate or talk to girls? I joined debate and DECA (business/oral competition) and regularly talk to, and mind you, stutter around, female friends. Do you think maybe you’ve had the ...

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commentr/StutterNov 18, 2020
1 points

Find someone who accepts the whole "package". Of course, don't use it as an excuse not to improve your speech or yourself in general. Personally, I was indirectly rejected last month because of my stu...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2020
1 points

When I get rejected I play it off like 'ah don't stress I've got like a hundred women waiting for me'. Good luck dude!...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2020
2 points

Asking someone out is terrifying for most people. For a person with a stutter it takes even more courage. Such bravery is often considered very attractive....

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2020
4 points

Am 30 now. Only stutter when my mind is very chaotic these days. Used to be way way worse. Did had a couple of women though. The way to do it is to first be friends so she gets used to the stutter. A...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2020
15 points

I have a pretty big stutter got a wonderful gf. In fact we are going yo get married. Just be yourself and if She does really like you, She wont mind. Just be yourself. Nobody is perfect...

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commentr/StutterNov 17, 2020
35 points

She's a human being just like yourself, you don't have to be afraid about anything. And believe me, the fear of asking someone out is nowhere close to living in regret of not giving it a shot....

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postr/StutterNov 17, 2020
37 points

How should I approach I girl I’m interested in with a stutter?

How should I approach I girl I’m interested in with a stutter? So my stutter is most Anxiety driven and I feel like it would be extremely hard to get a partner. Any tips?...

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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2020
2 points

My situation is very similar to yours. I'm able to work from home and usually have a mild to moderate stutter, but over the last few months noticed it's much more on the moderate side and really strug...

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commentr/StutterNov 5, 2020
1 points

Well no. It's not just a matter of mindset or if u accept it. I've seen stutterers making videos blocking on maybe 1 word of a sentence etc and have seen the opposite too, like mine. My stutter is so ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
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commentr/StutterNov 5, 2020
2 points

I have already accepted it but for someone stuttering is a disability, I could not even study the job I wanted, and I also lost the girl I loved the most in the world, not because I stuttered but I co...

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Helplessness & AgencyQuality of LifeDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
1 points

No it doesn't. Find the right person who loves you for who you are. Married for 2.5 years now to a girl I met in college (I'm a stutterer). Your stutter doesn't define who you are, no matter how frust...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2020
1 points

Like someone else has said, it really depends on the severity. I myself have a very severe stutter and it’s a chore for both the listener and myself. The listener because they’d require a lot of patie...

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Severity & FluctuationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2020
2 points

If a girl likes you she really wouldnt care that much about your stutter...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2020
1 points

I’ve been stuttering all my life and I have a girlfriend right now. You just have to own the fact that you stutter and find the right one, believe me....

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Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
1 points

I honestly thought I would never find love because of my stutter. But now I have an amazing girlfriend of 3 years who love me for who I am and I couldn’t be happier. It’s all about putting yourself ou...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
1 points

My cousin introduced us....we are not together any more. He always said my stutter was cute....

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2020
3 points

As cheesy as it sounds, its a numbers game. "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." Confidence comes with success and the the only way to find success is to put yourself in situations were you co...

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