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commentr/StutterDec 15, 2020
1 points

don’t be embarrassed or ashamed! These are the cards that we were dealt so take it as it is. If you been dating him then he probably notice something with your speech. I’d start by saying “I’m sure y...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
1 points

I am glad that you can say that you have made peace with stuttering. I don't know your story and don't pretend to sound like I do. But I would like to encourage you to look deeply and ask yourself if ...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
3 points

The older I've gotten, the less impact I think it would make. Stuttering helped steer me into my engineering career. It helped steer me into fewer but healthier relationships. I *know* how stuttering...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
2 points

Thank you for this perspective. It's been a really tough internal struggle for me. I've known people who have had relationships end indirectly because of stuttering and I'm hoping that's not going to ...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
1 points

I totally understand that perspective. I never had a date until halfway through college because I couldn't manage to talk to people fluently. I wish I had a recommendation, but I'd just say if you ha...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
1 points

Thanks for the insights! I appreciate it. As I've aged I've gotten more comfortable with stuttering. In part because of the security of marriage (my ex- never minded) and in part because overall cont...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
1 points

> if we are unsatisfied with out love life, professional life, social life these things that u say, stuttering never gave me a chance to enjoy, in peace with my stuttering I have been for years an...

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commentr/StutterDec 14, 2020
2 points

While not married, I’ve been in a serious relationship with my last partner who knew I stuttered and my current partner now. With my last partner I was more fluent and I generally felt more at ease as...

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postr/StutterDec 14, 2020
3 points

Stuttering in a relationship

Stuttering in a relationship I was married for 22 years, and post divorce have now been in a serious relationship for about 3 years. Like many, for me fluency comes and goes and, for the last few yea...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
1 points

Also, career choices, choices in who to date, etc. Big decisions in a stutterer's life are driven by the invisible muzzle....

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
5 points

As someone who was heavy stutterer in childhood and somewhat fluent now, i get ya. I don't think about it often, until I get into convo with someone, and if it's for the first time its like alarm in b...

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2020
4 points

I am a girl, and I’m bi. I luckily grew up in a pretty accepting community, but it definitely made me feel like an outsider because of two things going against me if that makes sense. My stutter took ...

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commentr/StutterDec 3, 2020
1 points

Are you still single? Is it because of your stuttering?...

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commentr/StutterDec 1, 2020
1 points

Been trough similar situations. If you have been just texting but not taking, It’s better to prepare your partner (voice notes) for the big day, so that she is a bit prepared if it sounds kinda weird....

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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2020
1 points

We met through mutual friends after he actually matched on Tinder with a friend of mine. She wasn’t interested in him in that way, and she didn’t really know how to handle his stutter to be honest. H...

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commentr/StutterNov 21, 2020
3 points

Join the discord server man! Is really cool here. Gl with the girls btw, be yourself and try to stop caring bout your stutter. I also have difficulties talking to girls u kno...

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commentr/StutterNov 20, 2020
1 points

It actually seems like I'm talking to myself. I have all the exact same traits. I'm not a smooth talker. I'm assuming you're not as well. Online dating helped me. You don't actually have to go to a ...

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commentr/StutterNov 20, 2020
2 points

Any advice for dating in general? I’m pretty shy around girls and have only had 1 serious relationship I’m not the confident type of guy, pretty shy and to myself So it’s hard to put myself out ther...

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commentr/StutterNov 20, 2020
4 points

Hi, fellow stutterer here.. i have been on numerous dates, since my breakup. Girls normally find it cute. I choose to be upfront about it. You can, too! Takes away the stress, and helps me be myself! ...

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postr/StutterNov 20, 2020
8 points

Dating?

Dating? Hello! I’m 22 and have stuttered all my life, throughout my childhood I have had a hard time controlling and coming to grips with it, but I’ve gotten better at it for some time. Recently my Lo...

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