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commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
1 points

And all of this happens to us over something we cannot control or fix. I’m sorry that happened to you too bro, we don’t deserve this....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
9 points

Personally I dont think these criteria or tips apply to us. The part that hurts me is that I know I have great social intuition, intelligence, and empathy but I cant use it. The more I try to bring it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2023
2 points

I usually put don't wish to answer .. I have said yes to it being a disability tho. I always sway between the two answers....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2023
2 points

it's so inspiring. travelling is my biggest fear too because I'm scared that I wouldn't be able to say a single word, my stuttering has worsened lately, though my biggest dream is to move abroad. "y...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2023
1 points

I get you. I'm 47 and I'm realizing I have a lot of pent up anger I never dealt with because of stuttering my entire life. Between being bullied in school, to feeling trapped in my body because I can...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2023
1 points

Lowkey feel the same, but now I shouldn't. And will eventually find someone, altho may take longer. Currently am very low in life, and don't believe I'd be able to hands a relationship right now. Only...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
1 points

Am 23m unemployed right now cause worked for family, and didn't notice they were breaking me down so I wouldn't quit and stay working for my brother. But my dad repeatedly told me I'd be mistreated an...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2023
7 points

That’s some situation you are in. And of course the stuttering is no help either. Yeah, I feel for you. The only thing I can say, that has help me through my hard times, is to try to do the next rig...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2023
1 points

Check if you qualify for assistance. I know in New York they have programs to help adults with disabilities. As much as we don’t like to think of ourselves as disabled, a stutter does qualify as a dis...

School & WorkCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Access & RightsAdvice RequestsEmployment & Career+1 more
postr/StutterJun 12, 2023
16 points

I dint know what to do. Help please

I dint know what to do. Help please So much I want to say…. I feel like so much is happening in my life and I dint know what to do it’s causing me anxiety/depression and suicidal thoughts like I just...

Emotional Experience
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressHelplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2023
3 points

It’s frustrating but just enjoy who you are bro. You’re young, know your areas of strength and weakness. I started stuttering at age 6. I used to think stuttering was all my fault (my parents and fa...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Medicalization / NeurodiversityHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2023
2 points

Being 3 years older I perfectly share your feelings, I'm not saying that stuttering completely ruins your life but we must be honest and admit that it is an important conditioner, that it requires so ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2023
2 points

All people go through shit all the time. It does not stop them and they still push through it. You are not special and there are people in worse situations than you. What are you going to do otherwi...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2023
12 points

I'm 29 and was in the same boat as you when I was 18. Many people look at stuttering as a blessing, I don't. It's a fucking curse. Directly or indirectly, it affects every area of your life. Yes, you ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2023
2 points

real. people who speak normally will never know (most of them) how many opportunities they get or in general, how lucky they are for being able to speak fluently. what did i do in my past life to have...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2023
3 points

I'm in the same boat, bro. You feel you're exceptional, but I wish this stuttering wouldn't be there. It's a fucking obstacle to wvery great thing in life. People do tell us to look beyond that, but t...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 5, 2023
71 points

Stuttering has ruined my social life

Stuttering has ruined my social life Imagine the pain of not being able to finish a joke in front of your friends without looking like a total idiot, or even ordering food aswell, can't even get your ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2023
1 points

You right. This disability holds me back. It sucks. I've gotten better over the years. But It's still there. This post triggered my pass dating experiences. I guess being an asshole is a coping mechan...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & AngerDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 3, 2023
7 points

Story of my life. I’ve been unemployed for about 6 months now, and I’m sure this is the reason why nobody will hire me. Apparently because I stutter, I’m not capable of performing basic tasks for mini...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2023
5 points

Bro when you can’t go outside or get a girlfriend because of you’re speech then I would argue what kind of life is that?!...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeHelplessness & Agency