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postr/StutterMar 16, 2021
0 points

What would it be like to date a deaf girl if I have a stutter?

What would it be like to date a deaf girl if I have a stutter? [deleted]...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
6 points

I am in complete shock that your PARTNER of all people would do that to you. This is beyond unacceptable behavior for any relationship - it’s completely irrelevant how long you have been together or h...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
8 points

There are many reasonable people commenting on this and I would consider myself a very reasonable person. However, if someone that I love and trust mocked me because of my stutter, especially if you'v...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
14 points

I’ve had lots of friends that brought up the “imagine having to deal with that whenever I talk to you!!” Shit. I’m not saying you should do anything specifically but I will tell you that none of thes...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
7 points

yikes that’s pretty manipulative :/ he showed his true colors and may have regretted it but it’s still very immature to consider the thought of “dealing with” another persons stutter when it’s not som...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
13 points

Yikes, I would say if he doesn't come around within a week or so I would highly consider leaving. It feels like he's been waiting to say this you for a while and finally had the opportunity to when it...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
8 points

I'm going to go ahead and assume your boyfriend is not a horrible person per se, but that he doesn't quite understand how not okay that was. Have you explicitly talked to him about this before? It r...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
31 points

So sorry to hear about this. I would sit down with your partner and tell them how you really feel and tell them this has made you consider leaving them. If they want you in their life, they will apolo...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
1 points

Honestly I lied, there was only one person who I went on a date with and everything looked fine, but at the end of the day I texted her that "I had fun and I'd like to see you again" and she replied t...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
1 points

Damn the fact that people actually got mad at u for ”wasting their time” really makes me never wanna meet anyone. Why are people like this...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
3 points

I had the same issue until I stopped hiding my stutter and released myself. And yes several people got mad at me at dates and thought I wasted their time, but there was 1 person who accepted me for wh...

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postr/StutterMar 10, 2021
6 points

I’m 26 and i’ve never been in a relationship because of my stutter. It really affects my ability to connect with people because I try so hard to hide it which results to me not being able to be myself

I’m 26 and i’ve never been in a relationship because of my stutter. It really affects my ability to connect with people because I try so hard to hide it which results to me not being able to be myself...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
6 points

Yeah I’ve stuttered nearly my entire life but right now I’ve managed to get it to a point where I’m fluent around the people I’m most comfortable around. Around people who i don’t know very well i str...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
3 points

You speak because you know you have something valuable to say. you know, even behind what you tell yourself and what others say that you DO provide value to conversations, speeches, or really anything...

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postr/StutterFeb 28, 2021
2 points

talking to a girl at a party then u start stuttering

talking to a girl at a party then u start stuttering [deleted]...

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commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2021
17 points

In my experience, it seems like girls find stuttering kind of cute. It’s something you struggle with, but still managed to come this far. I think you just need to push through and ask her out. Look at...

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commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2021
6 points

I'm 31, almost 32, having stuttered since I was 5. I've never dated or even been close to that. I'm basically where you're at right now in thinking that I'll be alone, and I'm struggling with that rea...

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commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
3 points

I grew up in Miami but have been living in new York for a couple years now. I don't think I would want no strings attached. Ive never been that kind of person more always been more into relationships....

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commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
1 points

Yea and of course I don't mean to say turning a stutter off is the only way to do it. Perfection or no stuttering is basically unattainable right? Having that as the goal is a bit tough. Now...I hav...

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Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2021
1 points

Thanks for your advice and time. I wish I could turn my stutter off for periods of time and even when I try to stay calm one block or repetitive word just causes that to go away. If I see that a perso...

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