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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2023
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Awwww, thank you! That is so kind. I will link it in this thread when it’s finished. Just a few more months!!!!! Thank you for the support means the world...

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2023
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Hey thanks for the comment and I feel you. Gotta be realistic. I had the luck that I had understanding en supporting people around me for my whole live, but the world can be bleak and I guess that thi...

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2023
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I'm sorry that stuttering has affected you so badly but don't let it get in the way of your education, you can go back to high school and finish it! I'm sure you can, good luck buddy and remember life...

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2023
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I've found that the vast majority of people I talk with are very patient and understanding. If I'm entering a situation where I think I might have blocks, I try and tell the person beforehand and they...

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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2023
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This channel is really great, I watch it every so often. I’m really glad that it exists and has helped me through some hard times...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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I'd definitely at least focus on things that won't be super hard to change. Getting in shape is something you can do that has nothing to do with stuttering really. As a 40 year old guy who's stuttered...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Awww that’s so sweet of you, it’s important to build community. If I could impact even one person with this book, I’m happy :)...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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I don’t care for these comments. Your experience does not invalidate another person’s experience and vice versa. Anything that starts with “at least…”. I tend to call people out on this bullshit....

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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They say this because they never took the time to imagine how many things it gets in the the way of. They have no idea how all encompassing it can be, how it can absolutely control the direction and q...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Love to see others owning their stammer as well! It is quite a liberating feeling, although it does take some time for sure. Yes I find the same, I think it helps hugely too as for people that don't h...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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I see that perspective and understand a lot of people agree with you. But not everyone interprets those comments the same way. I actually find that reminder helpful. When I feel like the universe is...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Many people find it charming and disarming. People like vulnerability. As painful as it is, there is a bright side to it. If you’re trying to pick up chicks try something like “Just so you know, I al...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Tbh I think I agree with this. Unfortunately when I stutter when talking to somone, I constantly apologize. Shows a massive lack of confidence. I guess I just feel like I constantly need that reassur...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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People find stuttering sexy? Since when? I don't like to stutter, and neither do I prefer to see someone stutter, tbh (my brother stutters, as well). It never occured me to that stuttering can be sex...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Saying this helps absolutely no one. It‘s dismissive and not kind. If anybody tells me this, I am probably not gonna be hanging out with them anymore....

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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if we start with this mentality then we realize that most people does’t have right to ask for support because there is always someone who goes through it even harder but this is not at all supportive ...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Actually, my ex thought it was pretty cute. Were still very close. The woman im currently seeing think it makes me different in a good way, very empathetic, and also cute. Cheer up. It gets better....

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postr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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when some people express their low feelings that come from stuttering and some people comment with “there are people out there who are going through worse things than you" I think some kind of comment like this is the worst thing you can say to someone with a stutter when they feel low

when some people express their low feelings that come from stuttering and some people comment with “there are people out there who are going through worse things than you" I think some kind of comment...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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Also - as other people have said, she definetly already knows anyway… I promise. My boyfriend kinda knew too, I just had to confirm it for him to be like ohhh that’s what it is, and he kinda brushed i...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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So there are others who feel that way. We should start a club. Anonymous, of course. The Anonymous Own Name Cringers or something....

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