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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
0 points

Stuttering is a funny thing. The more it bothers you the worse it is. The secret to some semblance of fluency is apathy towards stuttering. Taking the time to call this joke out in this subreddit te...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
2 points

My best advice is trying to imagine that you are not a stutterer. The less i think about it, the less it happens...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2022
1 points

You can speak to people. Nobody is stopping you. Your embarrassment and your stutter are different things. Yes, stuttering can feel embarrassing, but embarrassment also fuels stuttering. So if you wa...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2022
1 points

not really, sometimes "teaching me" how to sleep and not staying up all night can take weeks. But when that happens I can definitely see a difference. not only in the stutter but in the way I face i...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2022
1 points

There’s not going to be a cure, only strategies that you’ll learn to help and hopefully a mindset change (in the positive direction) about your fluency. My first therapist was ass. I got another one...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Seeking TherapyPositive Therapy TechniquesMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2022
2 points

Your outlook on your own condition will make or break you. Your life is just beginning so make sure you find a mental state that’s in your best interests. There are many successful people on this sub ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
1 points

thats an interesting way to put it before i stopped caring i always told myself "when you realise that nothings important your life is gonna be way easier" and i asked myself what i was afraid of, peo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
postr/StutterAug 22, 2022
5 points

Does this happen to anyone else ?

Does this happen to anyone else ? I stutter, not very severely but yes I do and it's been like this since I can remember. But i don't stutter when I talk to myself or talk to someone close with whom I...

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Situational VariabilityMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
20 points

I’m just out of a 8 month depressive period (it’s been on and off). One thing that i kept getting told was STOP COMPARING YOURSELF and I never listened. I kept on getting depressed because I could se...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

I haven't quite accepted my stutter yet but I've gotten a long way on the journey. One thing that has helped me is trying to focus on other things besides my fluency when speaking. In my case that is ...

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
1 points

That's great, but then if i'm not bothered because of my stutter I'll never change it. It's like, one person needs to quit his desire of being fluent to achieve this mindset, but, at least for me, tha...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

How does one achieve this mindset? Like not being hard on yourself when you do stutter? I've been trying meditation and to allow myself to accept whatever happens but I still find myself beating mysel...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
6 points

Learning how to approach conversations not from a stutterers mindset. Dont equate a successful interaction with "i was/wasnt fluent". Accept the moments of fear and realize its the fear that condi...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
4 points

Read this: https://www.amazon.com/HOW-STOP-STUTTERING-LOVE-SPEAKING-ebook/dp/B09FM612RD I’m in my thirties and my stutter started getting much worse (all fear/anxiety in my head). Then I found this b...

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Research & ResourcesMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
1 points

I wanted to share this post that a member of our Discord Stutter Support Server posted. It is a mindset change to allow yourself to stutter without those negative thoughts that come with stuttering So...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterAug 21, 2022
23 points

The most important thing I've learnt is to not give a fuck and not being hard on myself when I stutter

The most important thing I've learnt is to not give a fuck and not being hard on myself when I stutter I used to think about how I stuttered It used to make me depressed Now I just don't care and ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
1 points

And I've worked on my don't give a fuck mentality and attitude for a long time Keep at it buddy...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterAug 20, 2022
1 points

How does exactly "not giving an F" about stutter work?

How does exactly "not giving an F" about stutter work? I've this doubt because I see people saying "just don't give an F, it will fade away". How's the doing part? Like, if I don't care, then I wouldn...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2022
2 points

Maybe he can talk to his friends about it I think the biggest thing I've learned that has helped is not being hard on myself when I stutter That includes people talking over me etc I move on and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 19, 2022
7 points

I believe that reminding yourself of the fact that you don’t care if you stutter is key. I try to do this too. If I overthink I stutter, if I underthink I stutter. I just remind myself that I don’t ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride