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commentr/StutterApr 13, 2021
2 points

It's frustrating. Believe me, I know. As do most people here, I bet. Know that you are not alone, and more importantly, try not to hate your life. Hating your life is taking a step in wrong direction...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterApr 13, 2021
3 points

prolongation + filler words

prolongation + filler words most of my life I had problems with blocks. even now, blocks always occur when I speak. but since about a year, prolongations got more and more - although before that it wa...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsAvoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2021
8 points

Completely agree, especially what you said about texting. A lot of my anger with my stutter isn't about the stutter itself but what I actually wanted to say but couldn't. The regret at not being abl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2021
2 points

It does make sense. I guess I say sorry in these situations because my stutter has held up the proceedings a little, rather than apologising for my disability per se. (Also I'm in the UK, and we autom...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterApr 12, 2021
60 points

FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK

FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK I just had the worst stutter ever during my computer class while reading. I fucking hate my life why is it like this. Why can everyone read so fluently and I stutter every wor...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterApr 11, 2021
8 points

My stutter is getting bad again

My stutter is getting bad again I don’t know why but my stutter has gotten so much worse. I’m getting stuck on words and repetition of a word have been so bad that I can’t finish sentences. Half of th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 11, 2021
24 points

My sense of humor takes big blows

My sense of humor takes big blows I’m naturally a quick-witted and sarcastic person and I love to argue and joke around. My stutter obstructs around 70% of my sense of humor and charisma, and it’s ext...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
3 points

I struggle with this, however I also have no idea why it happens. There's days where I basically can't get two words out and it's the most frustrating thing ever. On those days I remind myself to slow...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2021
3 points

I know it’s a real pain. I feel uncomfortable talking to anyone I can’t make friends because of my stutter but suicide is never the answer. Us stutterers have to stick together!...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Frustration & AngerLoneliness & IsolationValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterApr 10, 2021
84 points

Suicidal thoughts because of my stutter

Suicidal thoughts because of my stutter I’m a stutter since I was 9 years old. I’ve been through a lot with my speech disability. I had phases where I felt okay with my stutter. Did presentations an...

Emotional Experience
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressSadness & HopelessnessFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
2 points

It is not their fault that they were born stupid. Not my fault for stuttering either... doesn't mean I laugh at them. It is common sense not to laugh at someone having a hard time. I've been where yo...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
2 points

So I'm, Sometimes I have to choose a revelant opinion to mine or just change the subject to keep the conversation forward. Tbh, Sometimes l liked stutter in somehow and feels like it's a blessing, Whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
2 points

My dad also treated me this way. Try talking to him and getting through how you feel. Wish you the best mate....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
3 points

You father seems like a problem. Even if you didn't have a stutter, he'd mostly likely find something else about you to pick on. People like that are impossible to please. I'm sorry you've to deal w...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
3 points

your dad has problems. You are not wrong for having a stutter, he's wrong for saying inappropriate and hurtful stuff like that and doing what he does. Remember that...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
5 points

My father and I grew very distant over the course of several years (teens to 20's.) Not related to my stutter, but there was a widening chasm. It came to a head one day. I exploded. I let it all out. ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 9, 2021
47 points

guys I wanted to know how to deal with my father

guys I wanted to know how to deal with my father He does not have the nerve to endure me as I speak and it is not that I have stuttering so hard but I do not know, he considers this as if I am unworth...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2021
2 points

Unfortunately I’m no longer in contact with my friend since I moved school and home 😩 I don’t use social medias as much anymore other than Reddit here and there, so I can’t get a hold of her, but the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterApr 7, 2021
8 points

Presentations...

Presentations... Iam in my final semester of my graduation, and I have 6-7 presentations coming up, these presentations are killing me, it drains me mentally, makes me totally exhausted to prepare fo...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2021
3 points

Talk to him. I see all these people giving advice on what they liked, and what worked for them. But every stutterer is different. Talk to him, ask him what he needs from his surroundings. For some peo...

Emotional ExperienceParent & CaregiverTherapy & Professional
Frustration & AngerHome SupportSeeking Therapy+1 more