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commentr/StutterOct 27, 2023
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The worst part is that whenever I have something funny to say, I go to say it, and even if I stutter, I get upset and don't want to finish what I was going to say. I just say "nevermind". I have a fr...

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postr/StutterOct 27, 2023
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I can't take this anymore

I can't take this anymore I am 21 years old and I've been stuttering since birth. I can't live with it anymore. I didn't finish high school because of my speech. I avoid contact with people. For the p...

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postr/StutterOct 27, 2023
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"Did I Stutter?" What are your thoughts about the Stuttering Pride Movement?

"Did I Stutter?" What are your thoughts about the Stuttering Pride Movement? According to Wikipedia: Stuttering pride (or stammering pride) is a social movement that repositions stuttering as a valuab...

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postr/StutterOct 27, 2023
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I was denied two jobs in a row because of my stutter

I was denied two jobs in a row because of my stutter Had a great talk both times, then got denied afterwards and when I asked why its always "I don't have a problem with it and neither do you, but I c...

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postr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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What would you do in my shoes? (Life advice) (theres a lot to read so if you dont feel like reading a lot dont view it)

What would you do in my shoes? (Life advice) (theres a lot to read so if you dont feel like reading a lot dont view it) This is a lot to read so if you dont feel like reading you dont have to and i ki...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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I know how it is. I don't exactly have stuttering - but a heavy speech impediment. The community in this subreddit although have been very welcoming to someone who has a fellow heavily bullied condi...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Omg you’re going to make me tear up!! Thank you!! I will def link it once it’s done. My financial team is holding the price for me until Jan 15th so I’m working on having it done by then. I noticed th...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Yeah I have alot of experience unfortunately with bullys, piece of shit people & some girls that are bitches giving me shit for it. So much that it gave me irreversible ptsd & even now in my 3...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Tbh I think I agree with this. Unfortunately when I stutter when talking to somone, I constantly apologize. Shows a massive lack of confidence. I guess I just feel like I constantly need that reassur...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Saying this helps absolutely no one. It‘s dismissive and not kind. If anybody tells me this, I am probably not gonna be hanging out with them anymore....

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Same with the speech impediment. It hurts to have both because people will bully you nonstop about it. People really don't acknowledge how life damaging it truly is. Girls will hate you over it, Bull...

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commentr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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if we start with this mentality then we realize that most people does’t have right to ask for support because there is always someone who goes through it even harder but this is not at all supportive ...

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postr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Stuttering isn’t sexy.

Stuttering isn’t sexy. I’m giving up on trying to say a damn thing anymore!! I sound ridiculous and you really can’t blame them for finding it funny. I give up....

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postr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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Any book recommendations? Please tell me the book and what its about and how it helped you.

Any book recommendations? Please tell me the book and what its about and how it helped you. I have a blockage where I want to get a word out but my head or brain just feels paralyzed and i cant get it...

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postr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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An eternal struggle

An eternal struggle 31 yr old male who stutters, I'm a lawyer, well educated but always not taking credit for my achievement and subconsciously feel that my success has been from people filling pity f...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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I don't think I've told many (if any) people that I stutter. It is obvious to me. That said, I don't blame you for not telling her. I do think you should tell her to gauge her reaction from her abo...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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I mean if random strangers can detect your stutter when asking for directions, odds are the girl you’ve been with for a year definitely knows. Yet the laughing thing is different problem. I had one gi...

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postr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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How to move on

How to move on Had a speech today and it went horrible,I couldn’t speak,have you guys had a similar experience and how did you move on,for the most part I don’t think anyone was really listening but i...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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🤣🤣 me 2. Most of the time if I have a really bad stutter my best friends (they are my brothers) and I have a real good laugh🤣 its not evil or something, but yes its funny sometimes...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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People are allowed to vent and other people are allowed to respond to it. Welcome to the internet where tone is lost and miscommunications are constantly happening. Accepting hard truths was essential...

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