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postr/StutterJan 17, 2024
18 points

I’m sitting at a loud bar

I’m sitting at a loud bar And the man behind me is ordering a drink and stuttering. The bartender couldn’t understand him. What’s the concensus on telling the bartender what he’s ordering? My gut t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentBlocks & StoppagesRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
postr/StutterJan 17, 2024
18 points

i have this habit of telling people i stutter before talking to someone because i don’t want them looking at me crazy😭(they still end up doing it anyway)

i have this habit of telling people i stutter before talking to someone because i don’t want them looking at me crazy😭(they still end up doing it anyway) ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
13 points

I believe that people find stuttering cute if they have a hard time coping with or properly understanding the hidden covert behaviors, the 90% that happens below the [iceberg](https://www.google.com/s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
2 points

Yes, every huckster selling stuttering miracle cures offers the same thing. And desperate stutterers convince themselves they've had a breakthrough in fluency. And then a few months later, when they'v...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Cure Claims / Alt-TreatsHiding & ConcealmentPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
1 points

I had it for a few years in elementary school, and then one day in 3rd grade I just decided I was done with it and refused to go anymore. The mechanical techniques didn't seem to help at all, and ther...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeeking TherapyShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
1 points

You really don't need to protect your child from all harm. Stop overprotecting him and hiding him from the trials of life. Stop taking all the responsibility, stop treating him like a child, stop nu...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
3 points

Year_24 gives good advice. Pretending you don’t stutter is one way of doing it, but he’s spot on when saying your attitude in stuttering changes. That’s what helped tremendously with my stutter. I, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
16 points

My life is not exactly normal but I enjoy it. My twenties were tricky but I did manage to complete university, get a degree and then a masters a few years after that. None of which helped me get a job...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentTherapy ExperiencesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterJan 12, 2024
55 points

I f***ed up another jobb interview

I f***ed up another jobb interview Normaly i would feel so sad but this time im am not at all sad or any emotions, i think this is because i see that if they cant see past my stutter then that is thei...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2024
3 points

Nice! It was mind opening for me when I realized this. It meant I could work on my stutter, instead of work on a fear response (which for me was blocking). My thoughts are that blocking is a behaviou...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterMemesJan 9, 2024
2 points

And sometimes I spell each word seperately like R.O.C.K. it's funny to see their faces while they constructing the word. Let them use their brain also....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2024
6 points

My best way of reducing blocks is just reducing my tension in general. I just work on anxiety reduction and self acceptance. I was taught a strategy by a SLP years ago to "soft start" which is making...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Mindfulness & BreathingHiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2024
5 points

Every single time someone asks me my name, I internally roll my eyes. If it’s a stranger who I won’t see again, I give them a fake name. If I have to say my legal name for context, I just spell it out...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2024
11 points

I suffer with blocks too (27M). I don’t have any techniques that work 100% of the time, but I wanted to comment so that people know that they’re not suffering with this alone (and I know how frustrati...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & ConcealmentMindfulness & Breathing+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2024
3 points

Not sure if it was you who I told this before: I realized that for me, the reason I blocked was because I was resisting actual stuttering. So for example, if I wanted to say "Smartphone" and k...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2024
11 points

I still block nearly everyday at 29 but the biggest thing I’ve changed (and am still working on) is making a concerted effort to not care what people think or how they react. Way easier said than don...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & ConcealmentMindfulness & Breathing+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2024
8 points

Yes, I was mildy mean to somebody so he/she doesnt want to talk to me so I dont stutter. This happened so much in the past. I think now I dont do it anymore :D...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2024
4 points

People who don’t have a stutter can be empathetic but they can’t ever really understand what it’s like. I’ve had people laugh at me when I’m trying to order food and most of the time I think it’s just...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJan 8, 2024
19 points

Why beating yourself up after stuttering event is THE WORST thing you can do.

Why beating yourself up after stuttering event is THE WORST thing you can do. Disclaimer: This applies to people that've mild/moderate stutter esp. those whose stutter gets more pronounced in feared s...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2024
1 points

And I knew exactly what I was getting myself into too, I guess I didn’t think it was going to be this hard , I didn’t think the customers would basically be verbally abusing me over my stutter . That ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHiding & Concealment