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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2022
3 points

And married the best one 😁. It got a lot easier with practice. In one sense - it made me better. As much as I could, I would structure engagements with as much Q&A time as possible. For some r...

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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
2 points

Good that you were able to overcome most of it. Your setting a good example to your godson, that it's possible. Did it affect you in social situations? As in the aspect of making friends, finding...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
4 points

It sounds like you have a mild stutter like me. I'm so sorry for the trauma you faced and that will make dating very hard going forward, believe me. I started online dating almost a year ago now and w...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
1 points

Gotta fight through it man. The way I rationalize things these days is the fear of being forever alone trumps being rejected or judged. That being said, I've never been on a date either so 🤷....

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
2 points

As a stutterer I understand this. But as someone who's overcome fear of that during dating by keeping the stuff I mentioned in mind (heck, getting married to the love of my life next year), I figured ...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
1 points

Quite a few people (22%) who stutter also develop some form of social anxiety during their adolescence. Which generally means: Low confidence, below average social skills, low socioeconomic status. I...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2022
1 points

Same.. I can't understand it either... But it definitely helped get me laid a couple times. Which as a teenager I never expected to happen after how girls in school treated me. Luckily with maturity m...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2022
3 points

I've heard several of my exs say they thought my stutter was "cute".. I never believed them and always assumed they were just being nice, which I appreciated and never let on that I didn't believe the...

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commentr/StutterJan 6, 2022
4 points

Love this post! I don’t stutter often around my girlfriend but when I do she thinks it’s really cute. I remember in middle school when I was faced with asking someone out and it took me a second, she ...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2022
7 points

In my dating history 95% of women found the stutter cute. A good number even find it sexually arousing, which is something I can't possibly understand. But hey, go out and get yourself some, fellow st...

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2022
8 points

Hm interesting I’ve had girls say my stutter is cute since I usually act more shy. So the exact opposite, but eh guess it depends on the person....

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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2022
1 points

Hey man I've made a bunch of posts about stuttering and dating, I'll post another here in the next couple hours. It's not your stutter caused a disconnection It's either : 1. She wasn't the right f...

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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2022
2 points

Hey man! Thank you for sharing that vulnerable post as I know a lot of guys resonate with this. I used to think the exact same way. I was so ashamed of my stutter that I would constantly be mute. ...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2022
9 points

Hey man, stuttering and romantic relationships are hard but this runs along the line of general low self confidence. Firstly 18 is young - young boys are always bragging and exaggerating to up each ...

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postr/StutterJan 3, 2022
7 points

Need some advice/help

Need some advice/help Hi guys, I just turned 18 a few months ago (M) and I stutter. I would rate my stutter a 6/7 out of 10. I'm at this age now where obviously every guy is bragging about how many g...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2021
3 points

Yes! The hotter the girl the more I stutter. Lol...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2021
3 points

Lot of comments on this thread reflect what I was thinking. If she rejected you purely for your stutter, she is shallow. You deserve better and you will find better. Although if you were awkward, ...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2021
1 points

It comes with me, it's part of me, if they ever was embarrassed by it they would be out the door. My current partner, in the 5 years we have been together I have never got the impression that she was ...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2021
6 points

I don't mention it verbally, but its definitely on my dating profile. Seriously haven't had any issues with it, most people don't care and those that do are....eh lame. I've had a few dates were I was...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2021
3 points

My stutter is not a problem in dating unless I am really awkward and shy about it. If I stutter and act like it is normal, they usually find it normal as well....

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