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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
3 points

Idk I’ve got a decently bad stutter but I’ve got a wonderful social life. Everyone here knows the “I’m really patient and you can take as long as you need with your stutter😃😃” smile but that’s about...

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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
7 points

Guys, I know having a stutter is awful. Mines pretty severe and I too struggle with being social. But we gotta be more positive. There is hope. I’m always here if someone wants to reach out...

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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
1 points

I agree. Obviously OP feels what he feels but I wouldve seen the bank dude as helpful if I was in OPs shoes....

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2024
1 points

I don’t they mean to belittle you, but they don’t understand how it would feel so they try their best to be supportive but sometimes it ends up hurting even more. Best thing to do is reassure them tha...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2024
2 points

The fact that the other person literally acknowledged your stutter and sympathised with you means that he is completely fine with being patient and hearing you out. You can take as much time as you ne...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2024
7 points

One of the things I see a lot around here is how lonely being a person who’s stutters is and how everyone here wishes they had more friends. If you really feel this way then it makes perfect sense wh...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
4 points

I met a fellow stuttering girl and when she stuttered I thought it was cute/endearing. Seems like I'm the outlier here. You guys really need to stop being so uptight. Not everyone is out there to get ...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
7 points

When they say stutter is cute, this comes to my mind, pugs puppy with breathing issues. https://i.redd.it/034djr7195dc1.gif...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
3 points

I personally never met anyone who say stuttering is cute...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
6 points

When someone likes you they find things about you cute. I dated someone once with a noticable overbite and while she was embarrassed I thought it was cute as hell. Also a lot of the dating pool, espe...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
5 points

Tbh I would've said thank you for the help and then say the sentence myself. But ultimately it all really comes to that particular person' personality I guess....

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
18 points

IDK about this at all bar. It’s a social setting and it’s a great ice breaker. Hey man I heard you stuttering when ordering the drink, I have a friend who stutters and was wondering, what’s the prot...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
11 points

It’s always good to inform ppl u have a stutter. Some ppl are still gonna be weird about it, but some ppl are cool. Ur doing great in my book, some ppl are not comfortable enough to disclose they have...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
2 points

I’ve had girl-friends that had stutters and I’ve found them adorable, also some with lisp and I might be a lil biased because their feminine tone did help so maybe it was the way they sounded more tha...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
13 points

I agree, but I think the important thing to take from these interactions is thst they aren't bothered by your disability and enjoy you anyway, so that it as the feel-good comment it's intended as....

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
54 points

It's not cute, people are just ignorant and somehow think that "complimenting" your disability will make you feel good. Dudes did it to me all the time when I was younger/dating. A friend of mine, who...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
7 points

All I can say is, you are really brave by going through all of that! Infact, each one of us (stutterers) are brave. We do a lot of hardwork to achieve the same communication skills as a normal person....

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
1 points

Not sure it’s curable. Not sure this is the right dialog to be having tbh. More interested in what tactics do work. One being change in environment, support and understanding....

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
3 points

I know things can feel like the end of the world at times. And you can feel alone. But there are people that will listen even when you do stutter. Source those people out. Social connection is importa...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
1 points

Hi there. A book I would recommend is Stuttering - Inspiring Stories and Professional Wisdom For me, it is very important not to focus on eradicating stammering in treatment or looking to give the...

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