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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2023
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I get that all the time. When I stutter I feel like I’m being rude to people with my tone and even when they don’t say it I can see it in there face and I’m just like I’m not trying to be rude it’s ju...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2023
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Bullsh1t. Post like these makes me feel like I am a piece of shit because "talking fluently is so easy, just trick your brain bro, just tell yourself you dont stutter bro". And those who cant trick ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2023
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There is nothing to talk about. He sees how you dont care about his stuttering. If he feels embarrassed or ashamed... Its probably not really those two things tbh. It becomes extremely annoying not to...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2023
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im 21 and started my first job a year ago, my stutter wasnt so bad last year but it progressively getting worse now but my co workers dont really mention the fact alot that i stutter so thats good but...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterNov 4, 2023
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Phone job

Phone job I recently started a job with phones , I have customers call in & they literally won’t even talk to me because I stutter , I cry literally every day , I’m trying to hold on to this job b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2023
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I stutter saying my own name & people are always like what did you forget your name , it’s like ya I forgot my name ?! I don’t know what it wrong with people !!!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterNov 4, 2023
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I hate the way i was born

I hate the way i was born Why..becouse im tired of stuttering between word and always get laugh at..why was i born this way..i keep fucking practicing how to controlled my stuttering..but none work.....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2023
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Thanks! This is really helpful. I'm just afraid that my manager might regret that he hired me. But who knows what he's really feeling deep inside. My stutter is moderate, very mild in most cases. I'm ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2023
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High school years were extremely tough, some teachers didn’t care I had an impediment and still picked on me and embarrassed me in front of the class smh like I didn’t already have enough going on....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterNov 3, 2023
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Has anyone else felt this way?

Has anyone else felt this way? I am stuttering since I was a little child. I knew I was different back then. I struggled with school and my classmates bullied me because of my speech. I tried so hard ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2023
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Yea same, anything oral that I had to do for class was anxiety inducing. I have a theory that a majority of stutterers have some form of general anxiety disorder of varying degrees. Just from the cons...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2023
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I agree with a lot of your concepts. CBT and the like can be very effective. Personally, it wasn't until I changed the "stuttering mindset" that I was able to "move on" from stuttering. With that...

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Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2023
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Yes, I deal with this often. Residual ticks and twitching can come as a result of trying to force your way through a block. I did damage to my jaw a few years ago with a bad twitch. I remember back in...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionShame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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All of highschool everyday worrying they would make me read out loud. And when it happened hearing there kids laughing at me. I got PTSD from that and my mental health is just getting worse...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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Ikr? In the US it was much better and didn't worry as much about people making fun of me and stuff like that. But over here omg cops, waiters, and pretty much everybody tell me why do you talk like t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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It's difficult to answer but even if it's kids, it still cuts just as bad. Probably even worse because I've had this happen a few times and it brings back memories of being teased relentlessly as a ki...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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God I am not one to quiet down because of my stutter, but I'm so ashamed of how I feel when I hear someone else. I think it has more to do with feeling like I'm listening to someone teasing me than i...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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Well it makes sense since you probably don't like that part of yourself. Maybe even hate. So seeing it in others isn't going to elicite any positive feelings....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
1 points

I studied at Memorial in St John's for a year. Back then, my problem was very severe. This one time I took a cab to the dorm and was stuck on the M in Memorial for a long ass time and the driver went,...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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It is very exhausting lol and for the most part people definitely don’t understand it and judge me and think I’m stupid...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment