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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
1 points

It is true that how you perceive yourself will impact how people see you - because you act out according to what goes on inside. I believe that changing how you act out can change what goes on inside....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
2 points

Wow, I don't think I've ever seen a username check out so much! My take is the dad is probably trying to help so this person gets more comfortable. As long as it's not seriously scarring, it's proba...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
2 points

In the states stuttering is a disability. It interferes with a major life activity. Feel free to call it a disability! It’s nonvisible disability. No more hiding either, that’s the only way I regained...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2022
1 points

Thanks, it's a phone interview which makes it worse for me, face to face I would feel more at ease, must admit though ivevspent a lifetime trying to hide my stammer, and yes, even though I do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2022
1 points

I’m a veteran of this topic!! Tell everyone at the beginning that you have a speech disability and to just be patient with you (and smile, puts everyone act ease). Don’t try to hide anything. Put it o...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2022
1 points

Agree with a lot of the advice on here. I think some simple tips I find useful are: tell the people in your life what you need from them and how they can lighten your load. I find that my closest frie...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2022
6 points

So I've been stuttering and have in speech therapy for 27 or 28 years now. I also happen to be a graduate student and have been doing a ton of job interviews in the last month. Here's what's worked ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringPreparation & RehearsalFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2022
2 points

Hello, Thank you for sharing. I would suggest you inform the interviewer ahead of time that you have a speech impediment that causes you to stutter. This will help prevent any surprises and help the...

Social & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Disclosure & Telling OthersSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2022
11 points

First of all, well done for taking the plunge and applying for the job….make sure to keep us posted how you get on… I can relate to your sense of panic mode….the phone has filled me with dread many m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringPreparation & RehearsalFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2022
5 points

Maybe be up front and ask for a video call/ face to face meeting if possible and explain why? Worst they can do is say no. And if they do be weird about it, then that's a red flag that you shouldn't w...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2022
1 points

I’ve had a stutter as long as I can remember, since I learned to speak. I’m currently 17 and have had a girlfriend for almost a year. All it takes is finding someone who understands. And if you’re any...

Coping & AdvocacyParent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesSchool/Clinical AdvocacyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2022
1 points

It seems that your comment contains 1 or more links that are hard to tap for mobile users. I will extend those so they're easier for our sausage fingers to click! [Here is link number 1 - Previous ...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2022
1 points

Yes, absolutely disclose your stutter. Research shows that it helps to offset any possible negative impression caused by stuttering, but only if done in a matter of fact way. Don't apologize for it. (...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2022
3 points

Whenever anyone makes fun of my stutter, no matter who it is and how funny they think it is, I never find it funny and I let them know they’re being really hurtful and insensitive. I try to combat it ...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2022
2 points

100% disclose before you start. If you don’t, it can just make people more uncomfortable and they can just think you’re really nervous. I find personally speaking in front of a mirror really helps. Be...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2022
2 points

Hello! I usually try to give myself lots of space to walk around because pacing tends to help me speak whilst i'm on the phone. For some reason, jumping or doing anything that moves my body impulsive...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2022
2 points

One thing I like about advertising is that you basically give yourself permission to stutter. You told them, so the feline vacated said container. Problem is, its hard that first time. I surprised my...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2022
3 points

Third this, and will add: I've started explicitly telling people that I stutter whenever I can in introductions, and definitely ones in a group situation. My spiel goes a little like: "By the way, \[...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2022
3 points

Yes yes yes!!!! Talking about it makes you look super down to earth and real, and it also helps calm your nerves and possibly reduce stuttering. So yes, own it!!! Shit, you’re smart and capable and I’...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2022
2 points

I have a stutter as well and I’m about to interview for a barista position at 3 pm today. To me, it’s all about owning the stutter and being at peace with it, every time I meet someone new and I start...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others