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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2022
1 points

I’m 21 and a male. I’ve stuttered my whole life and can’t say it’s done anything positive. It’s pretty much destroyed my self esteem and any chance of being in relationships cause I stutter and everyo...

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Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2022
10 points

If someone agrees to sleep with you, I'm sure they're not bothered by the stutter 😂 Whatever happens I'm sure the dirty talk isn't as bad as this https://youtu.be/ku6L8UupkG0...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2022
3 points

The anxiety around an attractive girl made me more nervous! Food is always difficult because you can't change the words (unless you order something you can say but don't want!) A friend of mine coul...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2022
9 points

Wow. Good on you for complaining. sometimes people can make a joke in a good natured way, if they see we are not too upset about it. there was a time on a speaking course when we were outside doing c...

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Advice OfferedVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2022
1 points

I’m my opinion, don’t let it hold you back from approaching or dating women. My only real dating experience is from girls at college, and most don’t even care about my stutter. They say they don’t not...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2022
2 points

I felt that way when I was 16, I regret it now at (early 20s age). Stuttering makes everything in life 2x as hard from job interviews to talking to women....

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2022
2 points

Funny enough I tend to relax more around woman, unless it's one I really like, then I kinda get flustered... but yeah generally once the girl/woman gets over hearing you first stammer, and actually...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterMar 26, 2022
5 points

I choke before talking to women

I choke before talking to women So I’ve been stuttering since I could speak. I’m ok with it sometimes but it really stops me from approaching women. Liquid courage helps but still I don’t wanna depend...

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commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
2 points

Congratulations!!! You've taken the first step in owning it by acknowledging that it doesn't define you. I didn't have my epiphany until I was 28 and I'm still learning how to "own it" everyday 13 yea...

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postr/StutterMar 20, 2022
16 points

Do people actually make fun of stuttering to a stutter's face?

Do people actually make fun of stuttering to a stutter's face? Maybe I've been super lucky, but I don't think I've had someone say something to me since I was 19, when a cab driver mistake my stutter ...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2022
1 points

I hope it does. Most girls my age are really kind to me and I could never see them poking fun at it, which is why I desire a girlfriend more than friends anymore It just feels like I’m being devalued...

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Dating & RomanceShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2022
2 points

This was inspiring honestly. Dating is hard as a stuttering man. As a man, you are the initiator of an interaction in a dating sense(typically). The only thought in my mind of talking to girls is will...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2022
1 points

Proud Stutter podcast has an episode around dating with a stutter. Maybe that will help? You can listen to it here or any other podcast app. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/proud-stutter/id158...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2022
1 points

You sound like me lol, I never had the courage to invite a girl out ever in real life, only thru online where I could say everything I wanted and didn't stammer, and I'm 41, so just be yourself and g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2022
2 points

Go for it, your plan seems solid. Even if she says no you get a better story than if you don't try....

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Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2022
7 points

You miss every shot you don't take. Everyone is afraid of rejection and the feeling definitely sucks, but the guys who get the most girls get rejected the most because they take the chance....

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Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2022
0 points

I think guys with a stutter can actually be quite endearing. Hell I even dated a guy with a noticeable stutter and it didn’t matter at all to me cuz he was really cool and confident. Focus on being a ...

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commentr/StutterMar 14, 2022
1 points

Naa we broke up but not because of stuttering. In fact i had no issues with my stuttering. As much as i was worried about this, she hd no issues with it. In fact, now I’m seeing another girl and she a...

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Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
3 points

This is interesting. I don't know if this is something I would do in a team meeting. However, he suggested hanging out outside of work sometime, which I plan to take him up on. Maybe it would be a con...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2022
10 points

I was actually doing something like this on Tinder a few months back. I recently got out of a long term relationship and was just asking girls to come have a drink and talk. That's it. Some of 'em wer...

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