Funny enough I tend to relax more around woman, unless it's one I really like, then I kinda get flustered... but yeah generally once the girl/woman gets over hearing you first stammer, and actually gets to know the person you actually are, it don't make a diff, and if she is the type to totally blank you she's not worth it anyhow.. Since a teen, all the girls I've actually had my eye on, I did mange to date, and that was before mobile phones and the Internet, so I did it the hard, old fashioned way.. just be yourself!