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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2023
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I think testing implies a temporary challenge, but stammering for most people is long term… like there’s no way to complete the test or “prove” yourself with stammering, it’s just a life long disabili...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2023
1 points

I’ve skipped out on so many meaningful relationships with people because I’d get social anxiety keeping up with trying to sound normal, I’ve dropped out of college, mainly due to lack of confidence be...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2023
1 points

Nah, I'm hella cuter than that guy. Our brain has its own internal timing circuitry, and stutterers' is with some impairment. Slowing every speech sound to 2 seconds is to externalize the internal ti...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Situational VariabilityHelplessness & AgencyOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2023
1 points

Because you let your stutter controll you the more power you give it the more it has. You are scared to get a job. You’re not unemploymed because of it....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 7, 2023
1 points

You ever bombed a job interview?

You ever bombed a job interview? Ever have an employer contact you about a prospective job offer and then go into the interview and stammering all over the place? This has happened twice this year and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2023
1 points

You call it hope. I call it delusion. Acceptance of reality does'nt make you "hopeless", it makes you a realest. No stutterer ever truly loses hope or gives up. You just realise a life long struggle ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2023
1 points

Cus i think all the time if they will accept me bc of me sutter or not im gonna stay all my life stuck in my home so i really dgash...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 6, 2023
1 points

Yep get ready for a lifetime of limited interaction, a lifetime of trying to avoid having to speak, there is no getting away from it.. I'm 60, been like you all my life, the anxiety never goes a...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2023
1 points

It is a curse to me also, I’ll never a get a drivers license, I have to go give up on medical school and idk if I can even join the Military...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2023
1 points

Hey friend. This may sound mean but it is not my intention. ¿Why do you ask this here? I mean just do what you want. Make your own mind. Take your own desitions. If you don´t feel like it you already ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2023
1 points

I'm in similar shoes as you. Except I'm 32 and when I was in my early 20s my speech was a little better and I dated 6 girls in a span of a few years back then. I had a understanding ex gf from 24 to 2...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceEmployment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2023
1 points

I've forced my self to do jobs in the past I was scares to do & tried my hardest to stick them out for the pay & benefits, but I ended up getting very sick from all the stress...no job is wort...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterNov 4, 2023
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Unemployed because of stutter

Unemployed because of stutter I stuttered ever since I was a kid (it’s genetic). I recently just graduated university and have a degree in engineering. I cannot land ONE single job because I stutter i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2023
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None at all, parents never really acknowledged it, nor did my teachers at school. Now I’m a socially anxious 27 year old and still don’t know how to navigate life with a stammer. Still afraid to speak...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
postr/StutterNov 3, 2023
1 points

Do you receive any emotional support?

Do you receive any emotional support? Hi, I would like to do this little survey to find out if you receive any emotional support. I had never received one until I recently saw a psychologist, but eve...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
1 points

How severe would you say your stutter is? Im asking because i have what i think would fall between mild and severe stutter depending on the day, and i was given up on by my recruiter early in the pro...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
1 points

Now, 22 back to just before 21. Maybe its really the same as its always been, but the year group im in now, is entering a stage of adulthood where i need to become self reliant enough for your basic ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
1 points

then not an hour, and not exactly that. Find out, what helpd you. Trust, that you find a solution as many of us did. If you didnt care, about fixing this problem, then why did post here? What did yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
1 points

I'm never going to be a famous and influential person I'm just a random guy. They had motivation and drive to do those things, I don't. People have career aspirations, I don't. There's nothing I want ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
1 points

I'd rather not give myself false hope only to be crushed when shit doesn't work. But if I do nothing nothing changes But nobody is going to help me so what else can I do? I just wish I didn't ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency