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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
7 points

Something that worked for me that my therapist told me, was doing deep belly breathing for a few minutes couple of times a day. Also search mouth muscle relaxing exercises. I know everyone's stutter...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingEnergy & Biological RhythmsFluency Techniques+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
2 points

Old Farmer’s Wisdom: “Our worst enemy looks at ourselves each morning in the mirror.” You are waaaay better than you think! It’s that mental gremlin that lives inside our heads to promote self-doubt, ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
3 points

No, I was so worried about knowing the material I didn't care if I stuttered. It was 3 people questioning me, 10 questions but each question was a big subject that they then delve into and ask furthe...

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Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & MonitoringAnticipating Stuttering+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
3 points

I’ve had unfortunately similar stages of this in my upbringing. And it severely impacted stuttering to points of being mute for long periods. O I suggest looking into trauma informed therapy. I think...

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commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
2 points

First off, I’m so happy you’ve found a community that supports you and makes you feel welcome!! That’s an incredible thing and something that can be so hard to find as someone who stutters so I’m so h...

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commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
5 points

I would focus on what's important in life. Education, health, maybe sports, work, etc. Don't let your stutter consume you. If it wasn't that it would be something else taking up headspace that no o...

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commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
6 points

Id say you're avoiding the responsibility because, subconsciously, you know that taking responsibility means you still might fail and not have your stutter to blame. A fear of failure is common amongs...

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commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
2 points

I think this is a good place for a few of these questions. OP is obviously very frustrated. It is a good opportunity to educate someone on the difference between a stutter and awkward social behaviour...

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commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
9 points

It's all about perspective. Lamenting over society's inability to "accept" us isn't healthy. You'll be surprised how much control we have over our quality of life. Yes, we are abnormal, but it doesn...

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Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
1 points

Get an IEP in school ( if you are public school) and they will provide speech therapy for you. But speech therapy will give you the tools needed to use them in moments of disfluency. I’ve seen it work...

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commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
2 points

**Summary PART #2:** # Breakthroughs and Key Moments * He recalls moments where his stuttering was severe, such as struggling to say “Nice to meet you” even after a coworker introduced him. * Over t...

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commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
1 points

Yes your post really inspired me to try again and know my stutter doesn’t define me...

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Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
1 points

Thank you for your comment. I have truly been fortunate. There’s no reason you can’t also be. Your stuttering is a small part of you. It doesn’t define or limit your character. Those worthy of you wil...

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commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
2 points

If it’s mild maybe try some articulation exercises and diaphragmatic breathing. Develop inner confidence and get experience to relax. Speaking particular while under pressure is more complicated th...

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commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
2 points

If there is chemistry, if he likes you, odds are he will like you no matter what. There was a girl I recently saw and liked and she barely said much, english was her second language, she did a little...

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postr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
8 points

Has anyone experienced not having any technique that worked, going through the struggles anyway and one day it was no longer an issue for that situation, word, introduction, etc?

Has anyone experienced not having any technique that worked, going through the struggles anyway and one day it was no longer an issue for that situation, word, introduction, etc? I have a few techniqu...

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commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
1 points

Not smarter. Possibly more experienced. I was a never-a-fluent-sentence stutterer. Eyes-shut, run-out-of-breath blocks. Wasn't until my mid-to-late 20's that I got fluent. That was a lifetime ago. ...

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Severity & FluctuationMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
2 points

Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful and inspiring story. It's heartwarming to hear about the incredible life you've lived and the love you found. Your words truly mean a lot, and they've remi...

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commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
3 points

Not everybody watching these courses is actually smart as well, and you cannot 100% control your stutter so its not your fault. Do something completely on your own terms, free of deadlines/signups/re...

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Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
6 points

It's scary as hell, but you have to take risks and go outside your comfort zone. When I was in college I transferred schools, and there was no orientation. I didn't know anyone. I'm at breakfast an...

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