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commentr/stutteringApr 1, 2025
1 points

Me too broo, what I'm doing right now is I kept on talking regardless I'm stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2025
1 points

I didn’t say stuttering was a learned behavior. I said blocks and secondary behaviors are learned....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2025
3 points

First of all. It isn't a rant. Your feelings are valid and very common among stutterers. I had a presentation recently and it was a stuttering car crash. I even had a beer before, which sometimes hel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2025
5 points

Greatly reduced its impact But there is so much to say on it, I wouldn't know where to start unless we talk about topics here and there.  From mindset to a better overall understanding of it and not r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
postr/StutterApr 1, 2025
4 points

Delaying Speech blocks when speaking to higher authority figures

Delaying Speech blocks when speaking to higher authority figures I'm going to a job fair tommorow, and I am going to have to stop running from my horrendous speech blocks. Like lots of other people, o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterApr 1, 2025
32 points

I feel like I would be so much farther in life if I didn’t have a stutter.

I feel like I would be so much farther in life if I didn’t have a stutter. I started a new career, and currently I’m just thinking how much farther I would be if I didn’t have a speech impediment. I h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterApr 1, 2025
3 points

So Hard…

So Hard… I am fighting the stuttering already a long time. Some days its Better, but sometimes its really bad. For example, if i need to say something in front of some Group of people, then i just get...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2025
2 points

Fighting your stutter is the vicious cycle. I suggest reading my articles to find out why. Accepting it doesn’t mean we aren’t trying to reduce struggle and tension. Again, there are some good stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PridePhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2025
2 points

Ive had some success the last few weeks. I’ve uncovered a way to overcome most blocks and stutters. I still have them. But I have come up with a routine where I slow down and reset and try again. This...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2025
2 points

That's what I believe too and have been espousing here, to greater and lesser success lol. And I just mean even when your stuttering isn't smooth and easy, that has to also be ok. But I agree unlearni...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMar 31, 2025
15 points

First big boy presentation tomorrow

First big boy presentation tomorrow For context I’m a college student doing an internship, and tomorrow morning I have my first big boy presentation. Essentially I’ll be presenting the progress of my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2025
3 points

Totally agree with your assessment of blocks - I think it’s a disservice to consider them primary bx. They (along with all avoidance behaviors) happen bc of your fear of others hearing your repetiti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2025
1 points

Before, I stuttered when I was very scared or around authorities. But over time this left me completely cowardly and my self-esteem didn't even go down the drain....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2025
1 points

Most of my friends have left, and what's bad for me is that I'm a social person and I can't go out and meet people because of my stuttering. These days, especially this year, there have been embarrass...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2025
-1 points

It's not a disfluency it's a avoidance behavior. They are avoiding the disfluency by using this avoidance behavior to avoid the disfluency ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2025
1 points

Usually I write down all my details on my phone notes and show them that. For my doctor i switched to one that doesn't have a reception, but has a self-check-in system....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2025
1 points

Hey man I completely understand what you’re going through. Tbh I was surprised reading this because I felt like I was reading a description of myself. I’m in the exact same situation, been living in J...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2025
1 points

Introducing myself is the hardest thing for me sometimes because there isn't another word I can replace it with. Going to the pharmacy is the toughest time I have. Lately I'll just give them my licens...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMar 29, 2025
10 points

I have a stutter and also autism - anyone else the same?

I have a stutter and also autism - anyone else the same? One of my biggest passions (due to autism) is learning foreign languages but my stutter is much worse when I try speaking anything other than E...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / NeurodiversityAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2025
4 points

Yep! For my first few interviews, I wrote down so much and would essentially practice lines- those were the ones I stuttered the most. Eventually, I convinced myself that I didn’t need so much prep, a...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring