Fighting your stutter is the vicious cycle. I suggest reading my articles to find out why. Accepting it doesn’t mean we aren’t trying to reduce struggle and tension. Again, there are some good stuttering modification techniques that I love to teach that makes stuttering much easier. And like I said, I’m very aware of what stuttering people want, since I stutter myself and I’ve been around tons of stuttering people. You may feel differently, and that’s fine.