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commentr/StutterNov 21, 2019
1 points

I find I’m actually pretty much an extrovert, and a talkative person. I’ve just always been inclined towards fewer words BECAUSE of my stutter. I don’t mind a good silence at all. But I also like fill...

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postr/StutterNov 12, 2019
1 points

Telegram group for STUTTERING

Telegram group for STUTTERING As you all know.. as i said earlier.. we have created a group in telegram relating to stammering and we are expecting a huge people joining so could you please share your...

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postr/StutterNov 12, 2019
2 points

I simply can't understand

I simply can't understand I don't understand how people just say 'find someone to talk to' like it's that easy. I've moved more times than I can remember and now I'm in my third high school. I don't u...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
3 points

Thanks for the detailed reply. I am not sure I want a friendship to be honest. I usually give most people a chance to become friends, but with the sudden sharing of all this intense information I felt...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
3 points

Yeah I was a bit taken aback by this and felt kind of like I was being forced into a friendship somehow!...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2019
3 points

I agree with this sentiment as well. he is desperate for a friend but he really needs to learn not to alienate people otherwise it will be worse. But is this your job? I dont think so. you have to w...

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2019
4 points

As someone who's been him, just be honest to him. He shouldn't have dumped his bagage on you like that....

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commentr/StutterNov 11, 2019
6 points

Yeah, i mean he is desperate, I can understand why he is clinging to you. But like others said, please don't feel any obligation. Just be nice to him, but let him know he cant cling to you. He will pr...

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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2019
5 points

Stutterer here. I went from a severe stutter in my childhood to a more mild one as I made my way through high school. You have no obligation to deal with or take on anyone else’s problems— no matter w...

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postr/StutterNov 10, 2019
6 points

I have just met someone with a very severe stutter - advice?

I have just met someone with a very severe stutter - advice? Hi everyone, I hope it is alright for me to ask for some advice here, or maybe suggest if there is somewhere better to post this. So here ...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
1 points

as a stutterer its hard to be the one always iniciating a conversation.If you were standing there and she didnt say hello or ask any question or try to start a conversation ,she either isnt interested...

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commentr/StutterNov 9, 2019
3 points

The thing that's really been killing me lately is it's so difficult to create relationships in a conversational environment such as work or university....

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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2019
1 points

There are naturally those types of people that I immediately feel free with. They are few and far between for me, but it’s like something switches and all of a sudden we have so much to talk about. I ...

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commentr/StutterNov 4, 2019
3 points

I’d love to meet another person who stutters. We wouldnt even have to be friends, I’d just like to meet someone else who can relate. 100% of my friends are fluent and while sometimes I feel alienated ...

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postr/StutterNov 1, 2019
8 points

Any stutters that play on Xbox One?

Any stutters that play on Xbox One? I'm looking for people who play games on Xbox One because I usually solo queue in multiplayer games for fear of stuttering when talking to random strangers....

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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2019
2 points

1. Happy birthday! 2. I don't have a stutter, but my 9 year old daughter does. I knew nothing about stuttering prior to her's developing! Once I realized what was happening, I googled and found a loca...

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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2019
1 points

Oh everyone takes the time to hear me out. But the point is I can't make a quick, humourous, remark, and it's obvious that they're often uncomfortable and unsure what to do when talking to me. Many ...

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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2019
1 points

Hang in there mate. There are those out there who will take the time to hear us out. Am truly glad to be able to call some of them my friends...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2019
3 points

Happy birthday for tomorrow. Hope you have a good one. If you want someone to chat to feel free to drop me a PM. I dropped out of school, didn’t know what I wanted to do with my life, was struggling...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2019
2 points

Just don't treat them any differently, simple as that really. Also, if they're anything like me, when they're bored they'll probably want to strike up a conversation and have a chat but their stutte...

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