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commentr/StutterAug 1, 2022
5 points

I’ve told some of my friends about it and no one has noticed it. Mine isn’t bad but it’s noticeable when they know about it. It’s odd that sometimes people only notice things when they are told about ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2022
1 points

They’re not really irrelevant. Anyone you talk to has an effect on who you feel you are as a speaker. Letting your internal self be known will help you be more free. Yes, I think there are some inte...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2022
0 points

My boyfriend told me very late that he stutters, I had to come in terms with it the hard way and still not fully over it.. I believe it is better to tell him before your relationship goes deeper....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2022
3 points

I have been there and I didn’t have to tell anyone as they could detect it. In the 70’s no girl would date me because of my stutter. I was 24 before I got a first date. But keep this guy as he unde...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2022
3 points

Hi there. I think we can pretty much all relate to what you are pondering. The desire to be accepted and valued for who you are. A key message on Reddit has been stammering is part of who you are, not...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-PerceptionPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2022
4 points

Good luck! My husband, when we first met, didn’t tell me he stuttered, because his is pretty severe and it’s obvious, but when we got to know each other better he talked to me about it, and that meant...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2022
3 points

I just feel like I have to. I don’t want to hide my stutter if the relationship progresses. If I do that, then I feel like I’m hiding who I am....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2022
18 points

Very little reason there is not to tell him. If you don't, and the relationship goes forward, how are you going to hide it? By taking deep breathes and taking slowly? Nah. Just tell him. If having a s...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2022
2 points

Just out of curiosity, does your boyfriend know you have a stutter now, as in you stutter now when you talk with him? Do you feel restricted in your speech when you talk to him, as in you can not say ...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 29, 2022
34 points

Telling the guy I'm seeing that I stutter...

Telling the guy I'm seeing that I stutter... I know it shouldn't be too hard but I'm having a hard time disclosing to the guy that I'm currently seeing that I have a speech impediment. Just afraid tha...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2022
3 points

First of all, congrats on the interview. Second, disclose your stutter and then move on to highlight your KSAs (knowledge , skills and abilities). YOU GOT THIS! Enjoy the conversation and focus ...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2022
10 points

You should start the interview off by telling him about the stutter immediately after you introduce yourself. That way he won't be blindsided and hopefully not interrupt you if you get a block. I've...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJul 28, 2022
7 points

OpEd In San Diego Paper: It took me 29 years to ‘come out’ as a woman who stutters. I now help others do the same.

OpEd In San Diego Paper: It took me 29 years to ‘come out’ as a woman who stutters. I now help others do the same. ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2022
2 points

I stutter on my first name, last name, and phone number. This year I have also needed a lot of medical attention and have seen 5 new doctors. I feel your pain. I do my best to just get through it. Som...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2022
1 points

I'll look at these books. But I don't want to disclose my stutter to irrelevant people....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2022
4 points

I’m sure this doesn’t work for everybody but when I’m about to stutter on numbers in a phone number I just say “uh” beforehand. Like “555.. uh.. 3751” I can say it quickly enough that it’s not super n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2022
1 points

Something I found incredibly helpful was to stop hiding it. Whenever I speak to people I don't know and the inevitable block comes, I usually stop, force myself to smile (it helps) and say something a...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
2 points

My mum always told me not to care the interview. Walk in as if you don’t want the job Don’t actually do that but have it in your mind lol. I’m sure you’ll do great though. Maybe a ‘FYI I have a stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalDisclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
3 points

Stuttering can be passed down, but it's not a guarantee. My mother stuttered when she was alive. I stutter, but none of my siblings do. In the same manner, both my parents needed glasses ever since th...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Genetic & Family FactorsAcceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
2 points

I’m with you. I never tell people I stutter and I think it’s generally a bad idea to do so. Immediately when a person hears you have a speech disability, you are “mapped” in their brain as inferior. C...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersShame & Embarrassment