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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2020
1 points

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s super tough, but this is a stepping stone in your life that must overcome to grow. Just be patient, take deep breaths and don’t get upset if they get impat...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationQuality of Life
postr/StutterJul 24, 2020
56 points

“You really wanna get a job but you can’t even order your own food”

“You really wanna get a job but you can’t even order your own food” Today my mom said “you really wanna get a job but you can’t even order your own food” and I thought damn. How encouraging :) Just r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterJul 23, 2020
40 points

I’m scare my stutter would affect my first job.

I’m scare my stutter would affect my first job. Hi everyone, today I just received a call from a local coffee shop that offered me a job as a barista. Even though I feel happy for getting the job but ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & SubstancesSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelpful Med Outcomes+1 more
postr/StutterJul 22, 2020
11 points

Stuttering is the worse illness to have

Stuttering is the worse illness to have Imagine being in a social interaction and everyone else can speak normally. but when it's your turn to speak you get stuck on a sentence and everyone in the gro...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2020
2 points

I know it will be. I would have so much job opportunities because I would gain a lot more experiences, I would have bigger social circle, I would be totally different person in public. Now I have to p...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerQuality of Life
postr/StutterJul 21, 2020
7 points

Just Another Rant

Just Another Rant Anyone else feel like life would be a whole lot better if you could either just be completely fluent or lose the ability to speak altogether. I feel like it would be so much less of ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2020
3 points

Sadly I would say yes. Granted, my life right now isn’t “bad”, I have a great job and a relatively active social life. However, the stutter is mentally draining and it has definitely caused me to alte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2020
4 points

I can totally feel you. When the teacher ask me to read infront of the class that embarrassing moment, when there is a viva I can't express myself and every damn time I know the answer, when I have to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2020
7 points

I definitely get this. I’ve stuttered since I was in 4th grade. Never had a shred of self confidence since. I never spoke up in school and I never made new friends. It’s ruined my self confidence ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterJul 20, 2020
29 points

Do ya'll think life would have been better if we didn't stammer?

Do ya'll think life would have been better if we didn't stammer? I mean, obvious answers aside, I feel like my stutter significantly reduced my self-esteem and confidence in high school which in turn ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
postr/StutterJul 15, 2020
4 points

How to live with it?

How to live with it? I live in a small town in Tennessee, I have been stuttering since I was a child. Couple of years ago I worked on my stuttering and boosted my confidence, I would talk to strangers...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2020
3 points

(Sorry for the wall of text, I tried to break it up a bit) I know sign language, I learned because I'm losing my hearing, not for my stutter. I helped interpret for a beginners class (thats a funny s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityQuality of Life+2 more
postr/StutterJul 12, 2020
5 points

Should I learn sign language?

Should I learn sign language? I'm so tired of speaking. I feel choked up to talk to people. Has any1 thought of or learnt sign language to help with their stutter?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
1 points

I agree 100% with this. I'm in this point and it's awesome. For example, yesterday I rolled down the window of my car to politely interrupt 2 guys talking near of a car to ask them if they were going...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
6 points

Couldn't utter a destination , when bus conductor was asking me tickets in a jam packed bus , It was embarrassing af...

Speech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
3 points

Exposure therapy mostly (never avoiding talking even when I have the option to) once I start avoiding things like ordering food or talking on the phone and stuff like that they become worse for me. I...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
1 points

I mean obviously I really oversimplified it, it took me over a year to slow down and just it’s really about putting yourself out there I guess like food ordering and such, I remember in seventh grade ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
1 points

We just gotta keep on trying to go forward, taking about these issues with other people in your life helps, though I think people have a hard time understanding things like problems on the phone. Usin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterJul 7, 2020
8 points

Made a call and did not have to say my name! Yay technology!

Made a call and did not have to say my name! Yay technology! I had to call to renew my medical marijuana card today and the person who answered already knew who I was because my phone number came up i...

Social & Relationships
Quality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2020
1 points

I think that's unlikely to happen anytime soon, your best shot is learning to not give a shit about it and maybe learning some techniques to become a bit more fluent when you need it imo. Speech the...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride+1 more