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postr/StutterDec 5, 2022
6 points

Dating??

Dating?? Does anybody have any insight on how dating goes for people like us, how do we get the woman?...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2022
1 points

No problem. Maybe they thought I was I was cute and not the stuttering. But I believe that it come of as genuine, so maybe that’s what they think is cute....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2022
2 points

The best is when people at the bar think your stuttering is a method of trying to pick them up… it’s now become a friend group joke...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Humor & Community ToneDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2022
1 points

No, I certainly have not. Even though I have only light stuttering, I can’t get some words out. I study accounting in my country and most of the words in profession or in the legislature we work with,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesSchool & Academic LifeDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 28, 2022
3 points

Hi there. We seem to have the same kind of stutter. I’m about ten years older than you but I remember just how bad high school was battling a stutter. What you’re referring to are blocks. There’s not ...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2022
7 points

When I was 20, I thought I'd never have a gf. Since then, I've had lots of them, wife, kid, and life has been great. I know all those feelings you speak of. Your stutter isn't you. For better or worse...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 27, 2022
1 points

What do you do when you are blocking with a girl you like or a new friend you want to get to know and your self esteem just goes to completely nothing?...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2022
4 points

No….If you feel like you are becoming addicted/obsessed to the point where it’s wasting an inordinate amount of time, that problem can be dealt with independently of stuttering. Honestly, so can the f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
2 points

I’m thankful that my stutter has never gotten in the way of my romantic life. I’m also lesbian, so I wonder if that has anything to do with it? when I meet women I’m interested in, they could often ca...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
2 points

Honest question, how did you get a girlfriend as a stutterer? That's been a struggle for me....

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Advice RequestsDating & Romance
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2022
3 points

Sometimes our stutter gets worse, if possible we shouldn't let it push us down, that's get hard when there is someone mocking us but we must overpass it, personaly I think it is impressive you have a ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2022
1 points

Even though it’s sad I have kind of let myself just not care about dating. I just feel so unwanted and I wonder why anyone would want to be with me over someone they can actually have smooth conversat...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2022
1 points

My boyfriend has a very very mild stutter and we met through the NSA :)...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Dating & RomanceValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
1 points

It’s only really an issue with me when it comes to first impressions and big group interactions. But I also think if someone just “has an issue” with your stutter than it wouldn’t of worked out either...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAudience Scale & Group SizeIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
1 points

Can't really answer that question specifically as I've never been in a serious relationship but it definitely makes me scared to approach guys I'm interested in since I get light facial ticks:')...

Social & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Dating & RomancePhysical Tension
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
1 points

I don’t think it has affected it too much. I’ve had multiple women unprompted tell me that they find it endearing and humanizing. Have dated girls out of my league for certain, for periods of time. I...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportCauses & Variability
Dating & RomanceValidation & EmpathyGenetic & Family Factors+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
1 points

Had a date yesterday and got a kiss out of it cause I made her laugh even with my stutter. I hope you shine your light to the world and not let it define you. It definitely hasnt been easy but the rig...

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Dating & RomanceHumor & Community ToneHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
3 points

I’m very introverted anyway and have never had a proper relationship but I’ve had 1 girl said she actually liked it and found it cute, I didn’t understand this at all but it was nice to hear...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Dating & RomanceValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
1 points

When I use to go on dates from tinder I never use to talk much I would just go off my looks, but I wanted to say so much but the fear of stuttering held me back so much. Most relationships didn’t last...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2022
3 points

Honestly all of my partners I’ve had have understood my stutter and supported me. I was able to let people know before the first date so that it wasn’t that awkward. However, I’m still nervous about m...

Social & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & RomanceSeverity & Fluctuation