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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2024
1 points

That’s terrible! I am so sorry, friend. :C Speaking is literally one of the hardest things for us and so many people just don’t get it because they can’t relate. But it would be nearly impossible for ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2024
2 points

Both parents stutter, plus dad has neurotic ticks. Problem was not that they did stutter, problem is they are highly nervous and self-conscious about it/me growing up dealing with that. They ignored ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2024
1 points

I swear, I've been really affected by what they've said of my stuttering mainly. My grandparents do the same, they tell me to just "stop doing it because it's easy" and then they imitate my stuttering...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2024
2 points

At the same exact position as you right now. I don’t really see myself getting a job anytime soon. Speech therapy doesn’t help, and I’m only two years away from being an adult. I can’t even say my nam...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
3 points

I always cringe inside a little when I see someone’s facial expression change when I start stuttering for the first time in front of them. The other day I had to introduce myself by name in front of a...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
4 points

I felt the same way at your age I was miserable I didn’t want to talk because of my shame and embarrassment. Fast forward I’m 27 not I’ll be 28 in May and I’ve gotten a lot better with talking but bel...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterMar 9, 2024
19 points

Slowly giving up

Slowly giving up Im 16 right now and i really cant see myself keep living past 18 if everyday is like this I feel like an embarassment to my family everytime i open my mouth,my stutter became worser ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
22 points

The hard thing about stuttering is you come off perfectly normal until you open your mouth. I saw these two girls at the train station that looked semi happy and interested to talk to me. One of them ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
38 points

Because "speaking is so easy! Think of a sentence, put an air flow into your mouth using lungs, that's it!" When non-stutterers meet a stutterer, they can't understand why the latter isn't able to sp...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 8, 2024
30 points

Why people get creeped out over someone who stutters?

Why people get creeped out over someone who stutters? I noticed people get really put off by somebody who stutters why is that? It's almost a sure way to ruin any chances of meeting people intimate ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

My mother once told me to just ‘talk normal’ and I’ll never forget it. So many people just simply don’t get it? Even the ones closest to us, and they also don’t realize (hopefully unintentionally) tha...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
1 points

Yes, in some things I am. My speech being imperfect and my weight constantly oppresses me. My home is very orderly. Some friends claim I'm OCD, but my striving for perfection is selective. My speech,...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
3 points

My mom does the same thing, strangely. It must be because they are weirdly ashamed of us stuttering or something. Not 100% sure, don’t have a great relationship with my mom....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterMar 7, 2024
8 points

How do I make my mother understand that I do not stutter voluntarily

How do I make my mother understand that I do not stutter voluntarily Hi as the title says. For context I (24F) stutter since I began to talk, but now I manage to mask it so it's only light stutter unl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
2 points

I'm so sorry you had a man tell you your stutter was off putting. He seems like he was an idiot. The people that really matter shouldn't care. I also have kids and one had a speech delay and a stutter...

Community & SupportParent & CaregiverEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyParent Emotions & GuiltShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
2 points

Stuttering affected me, a woman, for 30 years of my life and I'm in my 30s. Lots of pain and isolation my whole life. People called me stupid and bullied me. I had tics along with stuttering but was ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingPhysical Tension+3 more
postr/StutterMar 6, 2024
15 points

How occasional writing instead of speaking drastically reduced my anxiety

How occasional writing instead of speaking drastically reduced my anxiety Hi fellow stutterers, I would like to share my fairly new strategy that I've been using for the last 2 months, and it has re...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
3 points

Yep this exactly, to me, in my head I'm speaking perfectly clear, but people look at me like I'm talking gibberish, and when they ask me to repeat I start stuttering, then I end up wishing I just k...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & MonitoringListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

for people who wants to know: i did the presentation today with my colleagues, i was nervous for sure, everybody tells me i was amazing and everything was perfect, personally i feel average , i did be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

The hardest part is embracing it. I try so hard to hide the fact out of embarrassment/shame. Thank you for your response, I have to stop letting my fear stop me from doing things....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking