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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
5 points

I'm with you here. Even though my stuttering is not severe, I would feel mental pressure and anxiety to not stutter, and I would feel bad in the long term. I think I made the right decision to decline...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
2 points

Honestly I would've done the same but my stutter is severe. If your s isn't that bad then maybe trying it would've been beneficial. Maybe this is a bad thing but I've accepted my limits finally afte...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
3 points

i am still a student, but i think i will turn down anything would make me less comfortable. Is there option like you try it like a month? if you like it keep on...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
2 points

Life is limited bro. Don’t let others control it. Take matters into your own hands and own your shit. This helped me and will surely help you....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
2 points

Then your choice doesn't sound true. You were capable of doing it but you rejected the offer because of your fear and conditioning. This is not good....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
4 points

On a good day, no one would notice. On a bad day or when being tired, it is fluency is uncertain. People like me in general I think, but my stutter has made me avoid deep connections....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
4 points

Keep expressing yourself even when it’s hard. Journal. Write here. Talk to yourself. Go for a run or workout. When I was a teen and my stutter was incapacitating, I would often feel overload with hope...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & SupportCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencyAdvice RequestsStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
30 points

Anybody else feel worthless and lost?

Anybody else feel worthless and lost? Hello all i’ve hit a point in my life where Im starting to feel a little hopeless of a lot of things and it all seems to link to having a stutter. I know it shou...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
10 points

How did you control your stutter?

How did you control your stutter? For people who are able to control their stutter, even to a certain extent, what train of thought/method helped you get there? I realize each stutter is different but...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Fluency TechniquesHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

No. It's shameful. Also we should care because we live in a society, not in wilderness. Try anything you can in order to reduce your stuttering. It's not a thing to be proud of....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

Look, I've been in a similar situation before, a dozen times actually... I started to homeschool myself, sorry don't know how to say it in English but whatever, so. Homeschooling really helped me, I g...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

I went in when I was 21, it wasn’t really that hard but my stutter just made it so much worse, I still have nightmares about it haha, kind recluses my self from life after that lol, nothing but failur...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
7 points

I’m so sorry to hear how you are feeling about this. As some people have already said, high school itself can be rough and teenagers can be shitty. So hang in there and endure a little bit more until ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
3 points

I still have dreams of fire watch , it was horrible I couldn’t even get the first sentence out, my DI asked how i even got thru Melps that I was mentally retarted that I couldn’t even talk, that did i...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
1 points

Same here im roughly the same age as you (sixth form). Had to give a presentation some months ago and it went horribly wrong. I was done to the point that i went home early. Sixth form (high school) i...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2024
1 points

God doesn’t care man seriously. Life is a game of luck for the most part but ig we must do what we have to do without thinking much...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2024
4 points

Yeah, I have had those feelings, and still do 37 years later. What sucks is how my brain has normalized certain things people do without thinking. For example, having a conversation with a stranger ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2024
7 points

> If taking fluently is the only thing than can ensure a normal life, then why do fluent people still go through hardships? Why do fluent people still hate themselves and are depressed? Why do fluent ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2024
5 points

No, it definitely not solve ALL my/ours problems, but we have ALL the same problems that normal people has and this additional problem that destroy everything. A lot of opportunies, interactions, rela...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2024
27 points

Hate yourself

Hate yourself I just realized that I will never accept, Ever. All I wanted was to be normal, nothing special. average. And I won't be. So why go on? Nothing makes sense to me. I can't even talk. The ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception