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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
6 points

You should! Like I told another commenter, as a kid it felt scary to approach them, but as an adult I realize I shouldn't have been scared at all....

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
3 points

When I was younger it felt scary to tell them. As an adult, I kick myself for being scared to tell them. They're just a human who should have the decency to understand speech impediments are something...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
3 points

Okay but that’s brave. I have to start telling my instructors then because I have a lisp and do stutter...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2022
28 points

When I was in school, I told all my teachers I have a speech impediment and doing presentations, reading out loud, etc, will be hard for me. I tell them its something I'm born with and can't change it...

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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2022
7 points

I want others to know that they can finish my sentences because I stutter on all letters a lot. I'm more comfortable if people finish my sentences...

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postr/StutterOct 20, 2022
5 points

What would you want other people to know about stuttering?

What would you want other people to know about stuttering? Hi peeps, only few of my friends know that I stutter and for Stuttering Awareness Day, I want to come up (Idk if that's the right word choice...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
1 points

I feel like what I’m about to say has already been said by everyone but ADVERTISE that you have a stutter. It takes the pressure off from yourself in trying to seem “perfect” and it will allow you to ...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
3 points

If you feel confident about it, full disclosure! Tell her that you stutter to "prepare" her. You will see very quickly if she's supportive. e: I do this quite often before presentations and similiar ...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2022
15 points

If I'm being honest the best way is to disclose at the beginning and block freely. Its f***ing scary but hiding is more stressful and they'll see blocks anyway. At least do it on your own terms. Btw I...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2022
3 points

Any time I have an interview, meet with leadership, do a presentation, whatever, I say something along the lines of this: "Before we begin, I'd like to let you know that I have a speech impediment whi...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2022
2 points

I let my teacher/ prof know about my speech issues straight up! For me, it helps with the fear of being misinterpreted or seen as unprepared !...

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2022
26 points

I'll leave an old comment of mine here with some edits, might be helpful. I once applied for a customer service job and had rather obvious blocks and stutters during the interview. The two manager...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2022
1 points

Thank you so much!! I will sometimes advise them of my stutter, but most of the time I just act like everything’s normal in hopes that if they see me not making a big deal, they won’t. 😁...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
8 points

Why not just tell your girlfriend what you told us? That you actually took their stuttering as a compliment because you thought it was due to their positive reaction of the photo. And that you felt go...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
4 points

I love your analogy of a break up and how you understand your relationship with your voice. In my case it wasn’t so much about not caring about my stutter but rather reframing the relationship I had...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
2 points

In the years since, I've had one person bold enough to mention it without me bringing it up first. So yeah, I suppose it did work....

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
3 points

Oh I agree. In phone calls I often hear "oh I think the line is breaking up"; "no that's just me ha ha"....

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2022
14 points

Most people are so unaware of what dysfluency actually is, they have no earthly concept that “forgetting” is a common block avoidance tactic. Most people won’t say it out loud, but I think our une...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2022
1 points

Everything you describe is very classic stuff for people with impactful dysfluency! My first tip is to let them know you speak with a stutter. Maybe even wear a name badge saying “I stutter”. Make ...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2022
1 points

Did you disclose to the interviewers you have a stutter and just require a bit more patience and respect to articulate your sentences? It is really tough and I’ve also been on the same boat with const...

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